Melissa, there is no "quick fix". I had my lapband surgery on 3/7th and I know it is only a tool to help me with my weight, just like Weight Watchers, diet pills or anything else would be. You are the one who has to do the work. My only suggestion would be not to include any people in your conversation about the surgery who is not supportive of what YOU decide to do. This journey is about YOU not about what other people think of your decision to do it. Pray about it and go with what you feel is best for you. Good luck to you.