KarenDM

Hi! I'm a month away from my surgery and only four people know, my husband, my sister & her boyfriend, and my supervisor (only because he guessed ). My family and friends don't know and I don't want to tell anyone else. I'm actually on the fence about telling my boss at all & I don't know what to do. I wouldn't tell anyone if you're not comfortable, is none of their business. I'm planning on telling people I'm eating right and going to the gym. Which is not a complete lie. I am going to be eating right and going to the gym eventually.. I'm so tired of people discussing my weight and all the things I should be doing, the diets I should be on. Its my weight I decide what to do with it.. Good luck with your journey!

Hi! I'm getting surgery next month. My plan is to take off from work the day of and day after surgery and returning the following day. Am I being too ambitious? I haven't even told my employer that I need those 2 days off and this is relatively a new job and don't know how hell react if I tell him I need the whole week. Initially my surgery was on Thursday and I was coming back on Monday giving me 4 days to get used to everything. Now I'm barely giving myself any time. Any opinions? Has anyone gone back to work as early as I’m planning?

Hi! Id like to start off by saying a FB group is an awesome idea! I just joined this forum... My surgery is scheduled for March 21. I know its not April but I'm also not going public with my surgery. No one knows besides my husband- Not even my family- so I could use the support. Which is also why I joined this forum. Please look me up: Karen Mejia- I have silly big glasses on. Thank you!