My name is Tara. I am an identical twin. I am married and we have 3 children . I have struggled with obesity for the majority of my life. I HATE IT!! My sister and I both elected to have Gastric Sleeve surgery in 2013. When I chose to have my surgery I did not hide it! I was excited and told any and everyone that asked. I am now regretting my decision of being so open about it. Not because I didn't want people to know but because I am embarrassed and feel like a failure. I did not have the surgery for the "easy" way out but for help. I have lost close to 70lbs in 2 years with the majority being at first. I have not lost anything in about a year. I see people who have had the surgery the same time or after me and they are doing GREAT!! I don't understand. I hope that with your support I can get back on track and motivated to get back to moving.