LittleMissCopular

I'm currently at my heaviest weight ever and people are constantly saying things like this to me. I feel embarrassed for both of us when I get it. It almost feels like they're either saying: "my mental image of you is of a giant lazy slob -- but somehow you managed to look nicer than that in person -- must be your weight.." OR a subtle reverse psychology pressure telling me that I NEED to lose weight. In both cases, it always makes me feel icky (and I'm male - which means that the cultural expectations are quite different for me than for a female). And I NEVER make comments on people's weight because of this. yes!!! I completely get that! How old are you? Maybe its an age thing.

mine too! Who is your surgeon? thats a great question, my surgery is a few weeks before thanksgiving! Oh well I suppose where are you having your surgery?

I wear a 12W-13W please tell me i'll lose at least a couple shoe sizes after surgery!

How awesome! You guys aren't that far! Raleigh NC here!

Just curious as to see if any NC sleeves are near by!

@"ThickandTired" yesss! Girl Im going to pick me up some teal hahah. Although I am 5.3lbs this week!

Im still pre surgery! I can't wait!

hey!!! I've heard the EGD is easy and you don't remember a thing! I've never been put under but If I can do it you can! Id love to hold your hand through this. You're going to do great!!

Yay! Congrats Nikki! Lets do this!

hey paige were at the same place girl - kind of! & i'll be sleeved Oct too!

Dating. & attention. I would love to hear about the difference in dating. If there is a difference. Im 21 so Im curious as to see what you post or vets are experiencing!

"Wow! Have you lost weight!?" I get this statement ALL the time (currently at my heaviest) does anyone else get this? Its like people freeze and can't think of anything else to say. I don't get it... How about just a hello? At this point it just makes me smile cause come October i'll be able to say "absolutely, I have!"

well I work about an hour at home so I usually don't get home until after 8pm I was finding that after having such a heavy meal and a decent amount of meat right before bed Always made me feel nauseous with a tummy ache in the AM. However this won't be anything long term, Its just something I wanted to try while detoxing. I have learnt so much on here already! Naomi I would love that!

Losing an entire person Purse straps that go over my shoulder Sky diving Zip lining Fitting in a booth NO MORE LANE BRYANT!

Hey! Im 21 years old & my surgery is going to be in October. Im excited and i've done everything I need to except my psych evaluation & my EGD which are both scheduled in two weeks. I just recently stopped eating meat & packing everyday with protein shakes, eggs and water. So far so good!