Jay05

I didnt tell no one either, my family is very judgemental and criticizes and i don't feel like hearing there opinions Have you had your surgery?? X

How will you explain your weight lost to others who ask? Or how will you manage social get togethers? I hate lying to people but I don't want it to be common knowledge either x

Thank you for your reply, ive been going around in circles in my mind for months. I feel down about myself and wish I could have done this without surgery hence why I don't feel comfortable telling family however as you said food is such a big part of our family. My family knows about servery but they are just so judgemental and I hate being the topic of gossip! How far are you on your journey?? How are you finding it? X

Hi everyone. I have just been put on the WL for sleeve surgery and should have the surgery within 3/4 months. I am really scared as I haven't told anyone I'm doing it. I feel like everyone will judge me and I will find myself in the center of gossip. I know I shouldn't care what people think but I feel like a failure for not being able to lose weight myself. Is there anyone that kept their surgery a secret?? Thanks in advance x