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I have gone to orientation and am waiting to have my evaluations scheduled. The hospital/doctor's office doesn't schedule them until after they've talked to insurance company. I know my insurance won't cover it but it's the process they go through (and there's always hope that insurance might). I really want this and don't want to fail at it, so am trying to face my fears/anxiety and understand them (such as change in eating and excess skin). I'm almost 52, 100 pounds or so overweight, and having lots of joint pain and GI issues. Another question - at the seminars and on-line I can find lots of positive testimonials/reviews, but not many negative. Would love to hear from people who regret the surgery or who have bad experiences what those are.

Hi. I'm new to the board and am considering surgery. My biggest hesitation is eating after the procedure. I love food and I love the social aspect of food (dining out with friends and family). How does it feel to be with others and only be able to eat a few bites? What does it feel like if you eat too much? Once you hit your goal weight, do you increase the amount of food you eat to maintain the weight? I'm also nervous about having excess skin. Any thoughts on this? Thanks, Jamie