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Hello I am at day 6 and I feel very odd .. I would like to ask for some advice.. Because my wife and uncles that got the band last year and and one of them 3 years ago . Which they are doing great. I get from them I cant remember what It felt like and it's frustrating. I feel like my stomach is full of gas . And pains in my shoulders, ribs , chest And I only pass gas and burp . I go #1 but cant go #2 to save my life.. #1It's a nice way to say urinate #2 I hope you understand what that is ???lol I can only get down 4oz of a shake , Water like 60 oz and about 15oz of broth .. In a full 24 hours I feel full but sometimes light headed when I get up from sitting ( I know ! I think I need to eat more ) but I can't get it down anymore. When I try too I feel so bloated . So when does this all go away??? The gas? Feeling ..... ? And will I be able to consume more food so I don't feel lightheaded? How long into I can take a number 2 Last night was so hard for me we had a birthday party to go to and it was food galore from sushi to lasagna salad and appetizers.wine and cocktails .Here I come in with 8oz of fish bouillabaisse (fish broth) 2 4oz cups of Jello.... And siped on a 6oz bottle of water .... All night ... I am a renowned chef in the area I own restaurants and an Italian specialty store and food is my life and my career and when I am known for. Everyone was very supportive after I told everyone that I got the lap band .... At 10:30 I felt so bloated . I had to go .. Got home layer down and was feeling like I ate a whole pizza with a 2 liter bottle of soda . Tonight I have to go to a wedding and a 40 year-old surprise party. I will be fine .... Thank you in advance for any advice you may have ???