I am so glad you posted this - I've had the same experience with not wanting to share with everyone just yet and have major push back from my mother in law once I finally told her. She wanted to tell everyone under the sun and it has caused us to fight just a few days post op for me. I totally respect your position and can relate.
@@dc0520 - you look awesome! I had RNY on Monday and am very new to this, but would definitely call your progress major success. I'm in need of a few online supporters who have recently been through this but are ahead of me - any interest in being a go-to/mentor?