The Candidate

Hi @@plussizecrossfitter, so very good to hear from you again! My classes start this Thusday and I am so ready to actively be doing something to get this party started. In some ways the time has been going by pretty fast, but on others days I get a little down about the long waiting period. I saw Dr. Ray on the 6th, so I've been waiting to start these classes for over a month now! I've been pretty on top on the exercising portion. I'm a demon on the treadmill, and I only wish I had one of my own. (I'm hoping to buy one sometime in March). On the other hand I've attended more than a few of my own food funerals along the way. Still I'm excited for the first class weigh in next week. I don't own a scale (also an intended purchase) but I few as though I've list some weight, so we'll see. Congratulations on getting through the Halloween candy barrage, as well as your upcoming birthday! I think you're entitked to a little indulgence considering you still have six months of classes to wade through, so try to enjoy your day as much as possible. My trial of fire comes the very day of my first class. My office always throws this big Thanksgiving luncheon each year and it just happens to fall on that day! How's the foot coming along? And @@Photo925 we sure would like to hear a post op update from you when you have a chance! Take care, Debbie

Morning @@#9grammy! The fact that you can end that report by saying you're heading out for a walk just shows how strong you are internally. No amount of pain is going to keep you down; you've got this!

"Lost" I mean. Forget how to spell sometimes. :-)

@@#9grammy you came through like the trooper you are. Congratulations! Now get some rest! @@Kathy812 you've last 25 pounds already! That is so amazing!

Go get 'em #9grammy. Here's to the start of your brand new life! We'll be thinking of you!

@9grammy if you can why not book a day at the spa tomorrow or maybe just a massage? I bet that will work wonders with the jitters and headache. It's no wonder you're all tied up in knots. Do something nice and relaxing just for yourself tomorrow. Make a point of it. As for others saying things to make you reconsider, remember this: you are the sole legal owner of that body you're in. Others opinions are just that: opinions. And unqualified ones at that because no one has clocked any hours in that body except you. You're the only one looking at this from the inside out. You know exactly how many times you've tried and succeeded only to regain. And at our age especially, no one but you knows the amount of physical pain you're currently in. For myself that's the clincher. You have made an agonized but fully informed decision to have surgery and now you're following through. It's okay to rethink that decision too, right up until the moment they wheel you in, and if in the end you decide not to go through it then that's the right course of action to follow. But don't let anyone else who isn't you have any weight in your ultimate decision. Best of luck.

@9grammy how are those pre-surgery jitters coming? Normal and all of course, but you must be over the moon thinking about Monday! You're down to a countdown in literal hours now. Are you doing okay with the pre-op diet restrictions? Have your bag packed? Sorry for living vicariously through you but I would do anything to be in your place right now! I do remarkably well with the patience factor for the most part but every once in awhile I must confess to a spot of envy. :-). Here's hoping for the best on your amazing journey! Be sure to keep us posted!

@@Kathy812 Wow! 7 1/2 pounds in one week is amazing! You must be so happy and excited that you finally made it to the other side and are already realizing such fantastic results. It's sounds like maybe you overdid it a bit with your friends' visit plus the stairs, and that's why you had such a spike up in pain and exhaustion. Don't forget that you are just barely out of major surgery. You still need a lot of rest. This is one time in your life where you need to be totally selfish and think about you first and foremost. It's good that you're getting a couple of weeks more off of work too. What kind of foods are you going to be eating with the mushy phase? For some reason I always think of baby food when I hear talk of it. I've even considered testing out a few jars myself for when I get there. Hey, I figure it must be chalk full of needed vitamins and nutrients and the consistency is right. Plus they don't spit it all back up so some of it must not taste half bad. :-). Are you experiencing any changes in tastes yourself, things you used to like to eat but hate now. Every day brings you one step further out from surgery and one step closer towards your new wonderful life. What a blessing! Hope you're feeling better today!

@@beachgal2935 Hello there! Another pre-op sister, so glad to make your acquaintance! It really is wonderful to be here in this forum, chatting with people my own age who are going through the exact same experience. I find I'm having many days, especially at work, where I just drift off in a daydream for a moment or two thinking what my future is going to be like. I'm surrounded by 20 and 30 something's at work, and I imagine when I get get that secret "what if" goofy grin on my face , they probably just think its old age gas. :-). Don't get me wrong I love them to death, but they have no idea of the daily aches and pains of just getting through the day in this obese body, and they think old is 35!

@@traveler60 so sorry to hear about your broken ankle. Sometimes it feels as though life is working double against us doesn't it? We've finally got our future and health on course, and we're working so hard for this amazing goal, and then something like this happens! Since your surgery is in Mexico and so I'm assuming your a self-pay, have you considered postponing it a bit until your ankle mends? I know the mere thought of putting it off for even a minute longer is sheer agony, but it's something to really consider. I'm honestly worried about you. Traveling alone for surgery is hard enough, and with crutches it'll be even more of a burden. The biggest consistency post-op I've heard tell is exhaustion, which again will be amplified by dealing with a serious foot injury to boot (no pun intended). Do you have a walking boot or a cast? I'm not trying to discourage you in any way. I would be depressed as well if I was dealing with that on top of everything else, doubly so being this close to surgery. But waiting a little longer for a best end result might benefit you more in the long run. I'm concerned about your welfare that's all. I apologize if I'm intruding too much. I'll be thinking of you! Best of luck either way!

First, congratulations to all those who just had or will soon be going into surgery. How wonderful for you! From the sounds of your posts it seems like once you get final approval clearance things move very quickly from there. I hope all the post-op's keep everyone up to date on your continued progress so we know you're doing okay. @@Kathy812 is it getting easier for you as you get more days out from surgery? Have you experienced any of those taste buds changes I've been hearing so much about? Flavors you used to love but now you can't stand and vice versa? BTW is there anyone else on here who is still early on in the process like me, or am I the proverbial virgin amongst us? :-). If so, hope you don't mind all my questions! @@LainieG so relieved to know that your cousin's bypass went so well and she is recovering nicely. It must be a big load off of your mind. What kind of protein drinks are you using on your diet, if you don't mind my asking? I tried out a lot of the powered shakes, including Unjury, and they were barely palatable in my opinion, but I'm liking the prepared ones, especially Muscle Milk.

Way to go Nate! I've not had my surgery yet, but you only have to turn around a bit to see all the successful stories here! You're next! I'm so very happy for you! You're so young and you have a wonderful exciting new life ahead of you, never forget that.

We'll be thinking of you @Vsglady. All the best to you! Let us know how it goes.

Maybe that's all part of the magic designed to finally get us healthy again. You have so much to think about, so much you have to remember and do; there no room for anything else. And all the while you're going about your day in this strange brand new body. You've read all the instructions and yet it's still like unraveling a complex mystery. It must be in equal terms exciting and scary. But before you know it you'll be there. In that place you've been hoping and dreaming about since the very moment you made the decision to have the surgery. I can only imagine how tough it must be for you, but you sound like you are doing so well, and I'm so very happy for you! Remember to take a moment everyday and cherish how hard you've worked to get where you are now. How much progress you've made and how many more successes you have coming your way. Some so special you can't even dream of them yet! You deserve it!

@Jackbult, I love that term: Holy Crap What If Club! You should look into having that trademarked. I think I crashed your membership, hope you don't mind. :-). Even though my surgery is many months away I often find my mind wandering into the what if future. It's a very nice place to take up residence, dreaming of how much our lives are going to change for the better! I have faith @@mom of 2 poodles that your approval is already in hand! You too @@LisaLou30 Congratulations!

@@Kathy812 how is your recovery coming along?

@@swimbikerun thank you for the definition of PPI!

This is such an excellent question, and one I had too. From my research about HB after being sleeved I worry that when I finally get to see a surgeon, he/she will tell me I can't have the sleeve because if it. I'm not prescribed meds for heartburn, but I do take over the counter stuff like Pepcid. It's definitely not chronic, nor too frequent though. BTW, what is a PPI, if I may ask?

Congrats @@Kathy812 for officially becoming a post op! I'm sorry you had to go through so much pain, but I'm so glad you're feeling better now. I appreciate the truthfulness. I for one don't want anything surger-coated, prepare for the worst, but hope for the best as they say. Please keep us updated on your progress from day to day, the good along with the bad. Hello @@Queen of the crop, looking forward to reading your blog!

Thank you @@beachgal2935 and a happy belated birthday! It's kind of fitting that you started your pre-op on your birthday as you are on the threshold of beginning a whole new life after surgery. A life of better health, and the possibilities are endless! :-)

Hello @@Vsglady! Thank you for kind words! You are so right about the time flying by! Every time I do get a little down in dumps about the wait I just remind myself that I shouldn't wish my days away, as they're just too precious. I've really been impressed so far with Kaiser's bariatric program. It's very streamlined so I always pretty much know exactly what is supposed to happen next. I'm also very lucky to have a wonderful PCP who supports my having this surgery 100 percent. But I think the thing I am most grateful for is that I am finally feeling hopeful again. I'd become almost resigned to living the rest of my life this way. Waking up in pain, going through the day in pain, and going to bed in pain. When you're younger it's easier to fool yourself that being obese isn't the end of the world because you still have all that energy and vitality. You find ways to work around it. And then one day, usually around the 50 year mark (sometimes sooner), you suddenly realize that your body has become your worst enemy. It's out to get you. You've treated it like trash all these years and now it wants revenge! And rightfully so. :-) I've come to feel about this surgery the same way I felt about LASIK eye surgery when I had it. It's a blooming miracle! Finally my body and I will be on the same page, working together. I'm more than ready to turn my life around, exercise, eat right, and do whatever it takes to finally feel good again.

Thank you @@NavyMom2006 for the warm welcome!

Hello everyone! I am 53 years old and hoping to have the sleeve. I'm in the intermediate stages of the approval process with Kaiser So Cal, which probably has one of the longest wait periods I've seen so far. At orientation in September we were told it averages around 9 months. So far I've gotten the referral from my PCP, attended the mandatory weight management class and bariatric orientation, completed a comprehensive questionnaire covering my medical history, past diet attempts, body image issues, support, etc., completed a battery of labs/tests, and met with the head of the bariatric program who approved me for their options program, which are 24 weeks of mandatory classes (1 per week), which I'll start in Nov. and expect to finish sometime in May. He also told me I'll need to lose 20 lbs. After graduation then we meet with the surgeons, and I should find out then if I'll get the sleeve or not, psych eval, NUT, more labs/tests, their required orientation (Kaiser So Cal contracts out to Pacific Bariatric, and the actual surgery is done at Scripps Mercy), and finally.... surgery, hopefully by July at the latest. When they say 9 months, they mean 9 months! At first I was bothered by the long wait, but now I'm excited. I can't wait to start the classes, as at least I'll be doing something. Between here and the classes I should be more than prepared. Anyway, that's my story. So glad to have found this forum, and thanks @@#9grammy for the invite to the 50's. It will be nice to swap stories with my own generation!

Uh-oh. Nobody even tells me I have a pretty face. Should I be worried?...... :-)

I won't miss: lying about my weight on my driver's license, carpooling in a two-door vehicle and stressing whether I'm going to get stuck getting into and out of the back seat, being on an elevator full of people and hoping that it doesn't lurch because I know they'll automatically think its because of me, fearing fire drills at work because it requires walking down four flights of stairs and then walking another two blocks to the meeting place, checking the window before I leave work everyday to see if the path is clear to the parking garage so no one will see my face turning red and my gasps for breath. What I want to do: Take a spinning class, get down on my hands and knees without worrying whether I can get up again, get up to go to the bathroom in a crowded movie theater without worrying that my butt is hitting everyone in the face as I squeeze by, feel confident that I have a better average chance of surviving a zombie apocalypse because I can actually run now! :-)