I too was a yo-yo dieter. IT was leading to a horrible metabolism, and in the future who would have known which Obesity related disease would have hurt me. I already suffer from a bad back and my knee was giving way.
I lost a lot of weight with WW. and Nutrisystem, and I lost ALL my weight with RAW foods... in 8 months I put back on 100 pounds!
I just couldn't do it on my own.
I knew I needed help. I didn't tell my entire family because I knew that not all of them would support me. I didn't want to hear negative comments...
To me... I knew I was a grown up and had to make my decision. I made mine and was sleeved on 7/14/14. I am 9 days out and feeling fine.
ask yourself....Where do you want to be in a year? and then ask hubby to support your decision. What ever it is.
IF he is still against it..... then can you live with the choice of him making your decision?
That is a tough one. I feel for you.