Lili14

Mikee... I think I was lucky that its approved by my insurance. Also since I had some serious complications due to my weight it helped to proceed with the insurance.

Thanks everyone for the advices, it helped me a lot to make up my mind I decided to tell him tomorrow night. I hope he doesn't stand against my decision as its a life changing decision for my health.

Hello all, my lapband surgery is scheduled for 14th May. Feeling so nervous and wonder if im doing the right thing! I just need to loose 25 kg but struggled to do so. I tried everything from diet to exercise but couldnt get ride of my extra weight. I haven't told anyone not even my boyfriend yet, and I might not to tell him but I wonder if its right to hide it from him? What if he finds out? I think if I tell him, he won't let me to do the operation even that he wants me to loose weight. He's a very supportive and caring person but he always follows a healthy diet and procedure. We are seeing each other for 3 years and about to move in together mid year. Any suggestion? Is it possible to hide having lapband if you live with someone? Any suggestion for my operation? I feel so lonely at this stage by hiding it from others