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Yea that is so true....he wants to know more about it...he really does he sat mme down today to talk about it...but honestly i have always felt uncomfortable talking abiut my weight issues to him...and hes my mann!! Thats always been like the biggest elephant in the room. I knee he aint have a prob with it but i just never been comfy telling him..cuz i feel after i open my mouth about my weight issue he will really see how insecure i really am and im tryna hide that.

Your right...its not that he likes very heavier women becuase he doesnt.he just likes me the way i am so he says and he sees no need for this surgery... even if i told him it would help me with health issues he would still think there was an underlying issue that i was tryna cover up.

Thank you!!! He is some what supportive but he has no clue about bariatric surgery...i mean there are a list of things i could say about why i wanna/need this surgery!! But honestly all of them is as equal a problem....i know this is gonna be something hard to get used to...i will need a big support system. I know he loves me but this in itself will take alot of explaining to do...thanxx i will definitly keep the support group in mind.

Thank you!!! He is some what supportive but he has no clue about bariatric surgery...i mean there are a list of things i could say about why i wanna/need this surgery!! But honestly all of them is as equal a problem....i know this is gonna be something hard to get used to...i will need a big support system. I know he loves me but this in itself will take alot of explaining to do...thanxx i will definitly keep the support group in mind.

Hey!! I hope everyones night is going well so far...let me cut straight to the chase. I am set to be sleeved on december the 14th of 2013.... as far as im concerned i only told a few people..(everyone except my boyfriend of 3yrs) i finally decided to tell him today and he is totally against it!!! I know im doing this for me but i love him also and what if with the weight loss the attraction dies? He iis the man of my dreams thats the last thing i want...it took me a while to get to the point im at now but now that im here now what? I know.u cnt tell me what tto do but if it were u in this situation what would you do? How could u explain to your spouse why your getting the surgery? I felt so uncomfortable trying to explain.it becuase i know one of the main reasons is because ii hate how my body looks i know if i told him that it would turn him off and ill never hear the end of it...so what should i do future sleevers!!!??? Put urself in my shoes how would u handle this??? Thanxx for your input!!

Well they could have but my veins are deep so it might have still turned out that way

Lol

Thts my arm one of the worst ones the aftermath

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Thank u...im looking to make a new one

Thats what im saying you should see my arm right now ill see if i can attach a pic for u

Yur right but i thought i drank enough the day before...and 12midnight was my cut off time for any food n drinks....so when i went in this morning my mouth was dry....i hated it...my surgery is dec 14 im hoping i can make it with all thia extra stuff going on...

I know he sai d next time i have to go to the hospital where they could find my veins cuz they cnt find them manually they have to use the ultra sound machine..

Hey girlyy

Im dec 14th we in the same boat..have u had your endoscopy yet?? I was sappose to have mine today and it went horrible i didnt get to even get it

So i ended up leaving and not getting it...after sticking me atleast 7 times the doc told me to reschedual.

Well im going in...in a few seconds...i will be sure to let u know how it went as soon as i get out... and thank u..

hey guys, so today i am having my endoscopy... you would think i would be worried just because they have to put me to sleep but honestly im so excited!!! i guess its because i know im one step closer to my surgery and my pre-op diet.... oh i have a confession though the instructions were dont ea or drink anything after 12 midnight, but at 12:52 on the dot i drank some lemonade i had totally forgot so i know im gonna have to tell them lets see what they say. ill keep you guys posted!!! hve a good day my fellow future sleevers!!

Good luck girl im 2 weeks away from my pre-op diet!! Have a speedy recovery.

Thank u. .. ill take note..Im going shopping for stuff ill pick some fruit up

Has anyone on here expierenced constipation with your pre-op diets?? If so what did u do or what did your doc prescribe for the change? Also i see alot of people saying the pre-op diet is so hard....its scaring the crap outta me because i start dec1st does anyone have any food techniques that kept that full or atleast satisfied????? Please help!

Oh i feel you