Dear JCassel,
Congratulations - - you made it to the parking lot! Good for you. I can totally relate to the sounds of people making fun of me, talking and joking about my weight. I still struggle and have just started the process of having a sleeve done because it is now all about health for me. All I can say is that you are giving the small-minded, mean, hateful people who say and do those cruel things, way too much power. Don't let them prevent you from achieving your goals. I have found from past experience, that the staff at the health club's are very helpful and encouraging. The people who are at the health clubs fall in three categories, those who are so pre-occupied with their own routine that they won't notice you are there, people like you and me that struggle with our weight (maybe there are some people there who just lost some weight and then there are a few people there who will be so small minded that they may say think something but those people don't matter. I don't know that you will ever forget the "bullies" in our present and past, but if we stay in the "parking lot" they win and we lose!
Sitting next to you in the car - in the parking lot - Your cheerleader DLW622.