Mage,
I understand how you feel. I want to get my journey started as quickly as you do. i honestly think that my doctors want to help me, give the m the time to do so.
I would approach my doctor like this. Speak with your coordinator and get a specific outline of the steps in their process. Ask questions. Ask about turn around and response times. Be proactive. Be nice. But dont be a pain in the butt. A well informed patient is a good patient, a know it all patient is a nightmare.
Hold people accountable about response times, etc., but you also need to hold your end of the bargain and do what you say you will do. Again be nice.
Understand that things also take time. Be realistic. If the doctor, says it will take up to 48 hours, give them 48 hours. Also understand that there may be glitches, additional tests, etc. This surgery is complex, your doctors are just trying to make sure you are safe.
For me, the end result is what will matter, not the few bumps along the way.