only1nik

Hi all, I am so glad for everyone's input. You confirmed the things I was thinking as well. Knowing that there are other lap band users who are successful at higher weights gives me hope that it will work for me. I may still use the doctor, cuz the hospital is rated very high. She said she would do it, just didn't recommend it. My parents are coming down to visit the doctor in july so I think then we will finalize what I will be doing. Again, Thanks so much for your help! Nicole Fat Life

Hi all, I just saw a doctor yesterday and discussed getting lap band surgery. She does not suggest that I get it because of my extreme obesity. She feels the gastric bypass would be more effective. Apparently, you can cheat easily with the band and it will take alot of will power to actually have the band be effective. I am 335 lbs now and want to lose 185 lbs. Should I just get the more aggressive surgery, even though it is much more extreme? I have PCOS, insulin resistance and many other problems and I am only 30 and still want to have a child. Please help with some advice! Thanks. Nicole:confused: