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Empress29

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    Empress29 reacted to SpaceDust in eating too soon?   
    I think that some people are trying to get subconscious permission to cheat, absolutely. But I think just as many may just be looking for info on what others are allowed to eat so they can ask their doctor reasonable, informed questions about their prescribed diet compared other diets out there. It may not result in any change in what they're allowed to eat, but at least they may have a clear understanding of why their doctor chooses the diet she does for them.
    @Empress29 - keep in mind that the people who post here can get upset when they think that a fellow sleever may be looking for ways to sabotage herself or himself. It's generally less about anger than it is about a lot of concern about something that they see as a potentially really bad idea being considered, perhaps tainted with a bit of frustration or annoyance if this has been discussed before or if it seems the person is bent on a destructive behavior and completely disregarding advice. Sometimes the emotional response is the result of either having personal experience of the impact of doing what is being discussed, or watching a fellow member here go through it. In any case, since we can't see each other or hear the tone of voice, the only way to convey the urgency sometimes is to be verbally forceful. Don't assume anger, assume high levels of concern, and you'll probably get a better picture of what is the truth in many cases.
    Of course, there are those who are very, ahem, *direct* in how they state things, and tend to imply that you must be stupid or not willing to do what it takes in their responses. I still say it's usually concern motivating them, as otherwise they wouldn't bother posting, but their constant "tough love" mode might be a bit less effective for a lot of us.
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    Empress29 got a reaction from jacee in eating too soon?   
    I am seeing a lot of angry responses....WE ARE HUNGRY! Why are people so angry...maybe its tough love...or scared straight VSG edition...but my goodness. I feel you. I am a little bit more than two weeks post op and i am hungry. I am plum tired of those protein shakes...mostly i drink water and crystal light. I did eat two oxtails and i felt like crap....its just the addict in me. I ate a piece of general tso' chicen today...it wasnt as bad....but i am trying to go back to not eating until i get the approvals...be strong. I was told i can eat softs if that is helpful. GOOD LUCH!

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