Awwwww. Omg. I feel like I was reading about myself. I'm a 24 year old black female. 290 pounds. And my family is against it. But I've been overweight my entire life. And I have do much more living to do! I'm going to meet with my surgeon next month to schedule a date. I mean I could relate to everything you had in your letter. Especially the part where you talk about people always say you have a beautiful face for a big girl. Anyways I can go on and on. But good luck to you and I'm sure your family will have your back.