My husband. Was all on board with my sleeve, couldn't wait. I ended 3 days in the hospital, wasn't doing very good, my husband takes another day off work so he can take care of me.( Yeah right) We get home and is is helping me get into our bed and I'm telling him.....this is the way the Dr. Said to help me and he gets mad at me and said you just wanna do it your way, no just the way the doctor said it will be less painful for me. So he just let go of me and drop me flat on my back all I could do was cry from pain.