Dawn, Don't let anyone rain on your parade...............some people are negative no matter the situation. For example i have a dear friend of 35 yrs that is just a neg person, the cup is always 1/2 empty no matter the situation.......never 1/2 full SO am I going to tell her about my upcoming surgery ?? NEVER !! It is a very personal decision, listen to your heart............I have not told anyone other than my husband & one friend (who is having by pass this month). I don't want to be forced defend my decision especially to the girls who just don't understand because they have never rode that weight on, weight off roller coaster !! GOOD LUCK and think about next years Christmas party........... looking in the mirror wearing your new outfit and liking what you see !!