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Thank you and it feels great to share my feelings.

Thank you for your support and it feels good to have people who understand the struggles we go through in our journey.

This topic is a little to close to my heart. I have been in a longterm relationship for 6 years and we live together. He was very supportive of the entire process of my having Gastic Sleeve surgery in June 2012 and went through the entire process including helping my cook and getting me up in the morning to hit the gym. Starting early last year 2014 things changed dramatically in our relationship and he just really didn't want to hug me, cuddle with me or even be intimate. He would always say that my new body is going to take sometime for him to adjust so I have been very patient but in May of 2014 I have the TT and liposuction done and he stayed home from his very busy work schedule to care for me during my recovery. My thought was WOW your relationship is back on track and we can move forward being healthy together. Well just 2 month after this he announces to me that I am just not sexy and he is not attracted to my new body. He prefers his woman soft, with bigger breasts and more to love. I am sure most of you can imagine how devastated I was and how this really did take a hit to my ego. We have been in couples therapy for 4 months every week and the therapist thinks we should break up and move on with our lives. I agree but seem to be really still devastated by his words that haunt me on a daily basis. I am in individual therapy and working through this issue but it has really set me back on my eating, exercise and etc. I am getting better everyday but its a real struggle but I will keep plugging along to get my self confidence back.

I agree with everyone, I stalled at the 2 week post up point and spoke with my Nut and she said it's normal and not to worry. Keep up on your water and protein.

I am 14 days out from sugery and I had lots of back pain for the first week then I also had shoulder pain up until the 12 days out. Hope this helps and hang in there.

Yes, I have fibromyalgia and am preparing to have the Sleeve Surgery on June 28th, 2012