I am having the surgery next month, The Lap Band Placation Surgery and I am so sacred!!! My best friend had the Gastric Bypass and well does not look so good. She looks sickly and strange!! I don't want to look bad or strange!! I also don't have much time to stay out of work and scared that I may not be healed in 3 weeks and have to go back to work. I am also scared because I have nooooo support form my husband!! He tells me that I am crazy for the surgery and that I better pay my insurance timely in case I die!! Now I am really scared!!! Lately my husband who is very over weight almost 500 pounds says mean things to me that are so negative and now i am scared to even do the surgery HELP!!!!!!!