Hi spainter. Welcome.
Who is your surgeon in MX? I was with Dr. Kelly...no complaints whatsoever....except crossing the border back to the states...pain in the a#$.
Ok. So I found two local groups that allow anyone to come (and you can bring friends, family, etc if you choose). The first one is at Rose Medical Center in Denver and the second is at North Suburban in Thornton. I went to Rose last week and the people/facilitator were great. And I'll go to North Suburban this Wednesday and see if I like it. Here's the detailed info:
Rose @ 4545 E 9th #650
2nd Monday every month 6:30 pm
303.779.9355
North Suburban's Basement Classrooms 6 pm - 7:30 pm
3rd Wednesday of every month
303.450.4546
Hope this helps. And I'm sorry you're not getting the support you need from your in-laws. Not everyone is going to be open to something like this. But at least you do have some support. And I think the groups will only add to that support.
Keep in touch....