loveshackdeb

Welcome;
Yes - the sleeve will work. You don't have to "diet" for the rest of your life. I eat what I want but choose healthy foods first and then have some Snacks too. At 8 months out I am at goal weight loss and do not fear regaining weight. Our stories are similar - I too was a self payer since in the US, I was not severly obese so insurance would not pay - at 75+ poungs overwieght I did not qualify, so I paid for the sleeve totally out of my own pocketbook. Lost and gained back weight more often than I can recall, without the ability to keep weight off long term. What I received was a permanent restriction, so I eat and enjoy all foods just in moderation. I eat meat, fish, vegetables, fast food, pizza, fruit, pastas, choosing among the best in smaller quantities.
Why choose the sleeve vs. bypass? My friends here will give you other reasons than what I list.

No malabsorption issues like with bypass - ie Vitamin deficiencies Less supplements to take for the rest of my life My intestines were not rerouted, just part of my stomach taken. I have a normal functioning digestive system, unlike bypass. I don't experience hunger, really I don't. Head hunger but not the mantra of "I am hungry" that my body used to scream all the time Can take NSAIDS - over the counter pain meds, unlike bypass No dumping syndrome, which can be quite scary to those who experience it Long term weight loss is similar for both surgeries I can eat what I want...but am restricted to how much always. Bypass you have foods that will always be no no's. A single piece of good dark chocolate is enough to satisfy me and it tastes so good! Complications are less. I don't get diarrhea, gas pains when eating some treats. I love my sleeve and made the best choice for me. Never will I regain my weight as long as I do not feast on just milkshakes and chips. I am free from me and am able to no longer "diet" and fail over and over. I have won. Best wishes!