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Today was my first fill.. I only had 2cc's.. My surgeon had me swallow a full 16 oz bottle of water. I didn't have to vomit.. I only felt extremely full.. I wanted 3-4 cc's, but he thought it would be tight... I am still a little hungry.. This lap band isn't working for me!!.. I am thinking I should have tried gastric by-pass... We will see!

Hello, I am having the same problem.. It is frustrating and I need some results.... not later but NOW!

I want to thank each and every person who posted.. It has given me the strength and knowledge to do something about my situation and to stop feeling sorry for myself.. Counseling is on my to do lists first thing Monday morning.. Along with seeking the advice from an attorney. I never looked at my husband's comments as being abusive, but they are.. He is a heartless man and cares only about himself and has walked over me for the very last time.. This platform has given me so much STRENGTH and I can't say THANKS enough!..I am a school teacher and headed back to work next week and with the help of this forum and my girls, I WILL BE OKAY!.. Thanks and Love to each of YOU!

Hello Everyone: Thank you for responding.. I will take in all of your advice and my husband is not overweight.. I wanted to lose the weight for the sake of my children... He doesn't see anything wrong with his comments and refuses to see a counselor with me.. His theory is, "I TOOK THE EASY WAY OUT" and this is not how real women lose weight... The few holes in my stomach are flesh wounds and no one should be complaining about aches unless they are weak ... I can't take his comments much more and it is wearing me down mentally.. I do not sleep in the same room with him anymore, because I do not want him to see me without my clothes on.. I don't sleep and having the lap band surgery was a choice I made and did not expect this negativity from my very own husband... He is being hateful and it's hard looking at him, because I am developing a hate for his ways and towards him.. Thank you guys for allowing me to vent... I don't think you know how much this means to me!..

Hello Kim, Thank you for responding!.. It brought tears to my eyes knowing that I am not alone. There is a place to vent my frustration without discussing my marital issues with my parents and neighbors.. This platform is an outlet for me and I Thank you for your kind words and encouragement! Hellen

Hello, I decided to add this topic, because it is something that I deal with each and everyday of my life. When my husband made the comment about me being 'disgusting' after he placed a blanket on me while laying on the couch.. He tried to clean up his comment with, how kids would perceive me if they saw their Mom's underwear while she was lying on the couch.. I didn't know how to accept that comment, but my feelings and heart begin to hurt immediately.. the tears were flowing from my eyes uncontrollably. I never knew how someone that claim to LOVE you, could hurt you so badly in an instant. On August 9, 2011-my lap band surgery was performed and since that day, I have experienced a lot of discomfort and the inability to sleep. My husband says, "SUCK IT UP', it's only minor surgery why are you acting like you had a heart transplant or something amputated.. He picks on me time and time again about everything... he loves cornering me to say what a horrible and selfish mom I am since I made the decision to have surgery when we have two children returning to school...Eldest is returning to college and the other to 8th grade. If this negativity continues, I feel as if my 22 plus year marriage will come to an end... I need some feedback and would like to know how would you handle a spouse that is not supporting your weight-loss goals.. I am tired of crying and looking at myself in the mirror with disgust. Signing of as MrsExDurrellswife!

It has been three days since my banding and I am having pain in my shoulder, stomach, back, and neck and sides.. I thought the doctor was going to keep me overnight.. I was out of it for almost the entire day.. My husband has been a jerk... He told me to suck it up and stop acting like a few holes in my stomach is causing that much pain.. I have never been so disgusted with him... I wonder why my self esteem is the way it is.. I haven't had any fills done as of yet, but waiting to see huge loss within the next few months... Oh, the pain and no SUPPORT system AT ALL!

Good Luck Brandi!... I am scheduled tomorrow also.. I will say a prayer for you as I have for myself.. Take care and Happy Banding!

I AM SO EXCITED!!.. Tomorrow is my day.. I have to report tomorrow morning at 8:45a.. and will remain in the hospital for a day... I am so EXCITED and a little NERVOUS!.. I will post on Wednesday!.. What a wonderful DAY!

Hello, My surgeon had the Optifast in the office.. He told me it was a requirement. I didn't want to let go of $225 on the spot, but I want the surgery too bad and knew that it wouldn't happen without purchasing this product.. It has been pretty easy to use and I am satisfied with the results thus far.. I am anxious and can't wait until my surgery!.. This site has been quite helpful!

Hello, I am scheduled for my lap band surgery on August 9., and started my liquid diet using Optifast on July 26, and so far I have lost 10lbs since the 26th.. Optifast has been great for me.. I have an Optifast Soup for lunch and dinner along with two Optifast shakes for Breakfast and a snack.. I drink 10-8oz glass of Water.. It has been challenging, when you have a husband and two children that require cooked meals at least two a day!.. Try crystal lite and or add lemon or lime to your water..it helps a lot! We both need a little luck on our side!(LOL)!!

Hi, We are having our surgery on the same day.. Did you start your liquid diet on July 26.? I have lost 10 lbs in just a few days.. I am nervous and excited also!

I am scheduled for my lap band procedure on August 9...