JaymFran

You all are so wonderful! :thumbup: I am so happy I have found this site. You have all given me a new outlook on the whole situation. I have to stop worrying so much about what other people are going to think. I am doing this for me, and no one else! I know that I will have support, its just a matter of building up the courage to actually tell people!

I have thought long and hard and have decided that I want to have the surgery. But I am terrified about what people are going to think. (I know, I shouldn't be) I would love to drive myself to the hospital, have the surgery, and not tell anyone about it! I know that nobody will think it's a bad thing, but I don't want anyone to think I am taking the easy way out. Because this is definitely not the easy way,it is my last resort. Anyone else have this problem before they had surgery? I don't even want to tell my mom, and she is like my best friend!