I too just had this experience today. My sister came to me and told me she would not be able to be a part of my life for a while. She fully admits that it is her own feelings preventing her from being supportive and she acknowledged that she is jealous. It makes me sad that she feels this way, but I also realize that she has to deal with it on her terms. I am set for surgery on Aug 10. I alps am lucky enough to have a wonderfully supportive husband. This is about what is best for me and my future not what is going to make others happy :thumbup: