I am struggling with the "who to tell" issue. So far, I've told my husband, my best friend and my in-laws that I'm considering the surgery. I only told my in-laws because I am staying with them for the week-end and disappeared to go to my seminar; they were curious about where I was going. They both seem very supportive.
I do blog about my experience, but I do so anonymously. I really admire the people who are so open about it, but the potential scrutiny just makes me uncomfortable. Maybe as I see success, I'll feel more comfortable talking about it.
I don't know who else I'll tell ... I guess I'll treat each relationship individually, and do what feels comfortable. Of course, I'll tell all of my medical team and my therapist! In fact, I'm counting on support from all of them!