I'm only a week ahead of you, banded 2/1/08. My port is in the same place you describe, and still hurts some, although it's much better than at first. From what I've read, it can take three weeks to six weeks to get completely over the soreness. I have been wearing my old, stretched out bras since I've come back to work. If you have a wireless, I suggest you wear that. Better to be a little floppy than to be in pain! LOL!!! I know this, too, will pass, and we'll both be better off in the end. Good luck to you! Oh, you might also think about buying a bra extender. The looser, the better!