I'm 4 days post-op and told only my hubby, my sister and mother-in-law (who I am very close to). Just didn't want to hear any negativity or unsolicited advice. Now that I'm postoperative and doing well, I don't give a crap who knows!
Got out of hospital yesterday and everything went pretty well. Had some wicked nausea that couldn't be controlled. 5 different meds tried then the 6th one worked.
Welcome! The waiting can really drive you nuts. I used the time to prepare and freeze a bunch of meals for my family to eat the first couple weeks.
Tomorrow is my big day! Hope to see you on here again.