I'm April 21st, too. Been waiting over 10 years for this, but insurance wouldn't cover it. Hubby got a job last fall with the U.S. government, so now I get my chance. I'm 55, married. Son is married with 3.5 children. Dtr is sophomore in college & going to nursing school in the fall. Dtr-in-law is a nurse also. I work full time. Started this process last fall. Got approval about 3 weeks ago. Start pre-op diet April 10th. I guess I've been lucky that my family & friends have been very supportive. Hubby wasn't thrilled at 1st, but respects my decision. I've had 2 back surgeries& also have RA & fibromyalgia. I'm hoping weight loss will help those issues. Top weight was 280, currently at 275. So now just waiting for time to pass.