Cocopuff88

Ooooh yes, I always say how I would probably wear a couple sizes down if it wasn't there. My husband thinks its weird that I wear my pants so high but I have to tuck it in! I told him you don't know what it's like to start off with pants and undies over you're stomach, only to have them continuously roll down to the "lower level". I start off smooth and tucked in then look like I'm smuggling tubes of meat. Wow. It felt great to say that for some reason. Hahaha

Happy Birthday!!!!

Chicago sleever here! Going to have my surgery with Dr Prachand at UC. Laura submitted my info Monday and I'm REALLY REALLY trying to be patient but it's so hard! I'm scheduled for the Aug 12th PREP class. Anyone else??

Sounds like no matter if you would have included her or not she would still have feelings of fear and jealousy. Maybe she didn't bring them up right away because she didn't want to burst your bubble. My husband has said the same thing about the divorce rate. Even my mother brought it up and suggested we go to a psychiatrist together. Even if you can't do that, I always say honesty first even if it hurts a little. In the long run it will be better for everyone. I also told my husband I would do whatever I could to save money for his surgery, as his insurance does not cover it, and I mean it. Just basically trying to show support during something that really will impact him too. Good luck with everything! You're so close, don't lose sight now!