I am really glad to find this post. For about 2 years I kept it a secret that I was looking at getting surgery. I went to a few dr appointments and what not but never told anyone. MY family is all thin to thick, my parents push that working out is the key to all problems. Never fully understanding how I felt. I was scared to tell my family I didn't want to be judged. All the OMG what are you doing that for, just work out it will be better, just didn't want to deal with it. The 1 person I was most scared to tell was my father, he is strict.. eat this eat that work out your good.. One day he was looking at some papers I had, and suggested that maybe surgery was the best for me. That made me feel so good to hear that at least he is here to support me and would be by my side every single step of the way. He has been the one to push me to get my appointments done, bc even though it was out in the open I was still nervous to get it done. He has gone to all my appointments with me, never letting me go myself because he feels as though I am a grown woman you need that one rock solid person to support you on your choice so you don't question yourself. So far only my immediate family knows and 1-2 friends. I have come to this site for support so if you ever need to talk just send me a message. Sometimes it is nice to get feedback even from people that are in the same boat! I think when you feel confident in yourself, you will tell your family. This is your journey, and once your family sees you happy and healthy as a parent that is the only thing that should truly matter.