Lunasa, thats great news. You must be so excited about the surgery, I know I am. Im interested in hearing about you having been given shakes, soups etc for your pre-op diet, my surgeon only wants me to cut down on sugar, carbs and alcohol for at least 2 weeks beforehand. But I suppose each surgeon is different. I would nearly prefer to have been given shakes etc as it takes the choice out of having to eat. Im sure you will be fine just keep thinking that the pre-op diet will make the whole procedure easier on your body and also kick start your body into losing weight even before you have surgery.
Thanks for the tip on the April thread, Im new to this and any advice is appreciated.
In relation to OA, I found it great to be honest. I, like you, was very scared and embarassed when I first went but I decided to give it a try. The meeting I attended only had on average about 4 people there each week and we were all such an amazing support to each other. It stopped being about losing weight and started me focusing on taking things one day at a time and handing each day over to God. Dont get me wrong Im not the most religious person, and to be honest the whole God thing freaked me out at first but it doesnt even have to be God. It just has to be a Higher Power. It follows the same 12 steps that AA follow except the word alcohol is changed to food. The meeting I used to go to was about a 1/2 hour drive and it was becoming harder each week for me to go. A couple of the other girls stopped going and just before Christmas the meeting wound up. But I have often thought about setting a meeting up closer to home. They have a great website www.oa.org you should check it out.
It is definitly something that will always stay with me and something that some day I would love to go back to.
Anyway, thanks for the advice about the April thread and keep in touch.
Brenners x