What's up everybody? Well, I was approved by my insurance company last Monday for my surgery, & I get banded on 2/13! Anyway, I used to have a CRAZY sex drive, but the bigger I've gotten, the more I've lost my drive. I'm 28 & I'm wondering (moreso from a guys perspective; but definitely am curious about female insight) if the drive comes back w/ the loss of weight & if you are having some of the best sex of your life since you're performing w/ a smaller version of your former self?

What is a body bugg?

I am SO glad you asked that!

I have one and I love it:

BODYBUGG :: HOW IT WORKS

See, I'm one of the crazy ones...

I used to have a big sex drive, but I've lost 70ish pounds and it's gone down quite a bit...

To that, friends, I say YARG!

I have always had a huge sex drive...big or small. Being single though, doesn't really help that. LOL I've had a few flings here and there, but nothing that would develop into something serious...which is what I want! I'm too old for these games anymore! :thumbdown:

I have always had a huge sex drive...big or small. Being single though, doesn't really help that. LOL I've had a few flings here and there, but nothing that would develop into something serious...which is what I want! I'm too old for these games anymore! :thumbup:

I feel your pain with being single and having a huge sex drive...:thumbdown:

I feel your pain with being single and having a huge sex drive...

That's why we have "tools" to help us along the way :-)

Indeed...need to get a few more lol

Indeed...need to get a few more lol

My damn bullet broke! 2nd one to break on me. I feel like such a freak! HAHA!

lol

nah, you're not a freak...just a normal, single girl! :thumbup: just like me! lol

Oh good lord... if my sex drive goes up after losing weight then I'm afraid I may combust.

Thank God for batteries.

oh good gracious YES... soooo much more ummm, adventurous ...

I've always said that if after losing weight some guy that knew me when I was bigger tries getting with me it would be a nono because if they weren't into me when I was big then I don't want them. :cursing:

I personally cant wait to see the faces of some of the guys I dated in the past once my transformation is complete! I always said 'dont make fun of the fat girl in school, cuz you never know who she'll turn out to be'! Thankfully I am happily married now though. And hello! I cannot wait to buy trashy lingerie!

I personally cant wait to see the faces of some of the guys I dated in the past once my transformation is complete! I always said 'dont make fun of the fat girl in school, cuz you never know who she'll turn out to be'! Thankfully I am happily married now though. And hello! I cannot wait to buy trashy lingerie!

I just started working in my home town..people dont recognize me! its so weird..even this teacher who literally hated me during highschool..i finally had the nerve to go say hi to him and he didnt know who i was...jaw kinda dropped when he found out though! hehe

I have noticed an increase in my drive. It seems to increase as I lose more lbs. I do think that a part of it is confidence, but I know for sure that part of it is physical. DH is happy about it.

I am a pervert all the time, and would want it multiple times a day if my boyfriend would give it to me, (he is the one who controls whether we have it or not, because I am so bad. I know right normally the woman usually has the upper hand) So I am sorry I cant help you there. If all of you do say your sex drives goes up, I dont know what I will do, because it is already bad. Haha.. Good Question!