Just need to vent to people that might actually understand what I'm going through. I have a surgery date finally after putting my foot down to people who were against it. It just seems like every time I get one step ahead something always happens. I just feel so defeated and feel like it's just not going to happen or it wasn't meant to be. I know this surgery will be a game changer for me. I just wish I didn't have so many negative people impacting my happiness about it.

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I booked my surgery for January 26th. I want to thank you all for your positivity and helping me realize that it's no one's decision but my own. I'm really excited about this step and I can't wait to start my new healthy lifestyle.

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I second that!! Moving forward full steam ahead and doing what I feel is best for me. Grateful for all the positive encouragement as well, it was very kind of you all. Thanks!

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I had to deal with a lot of negativity from my family and friends as well. But, at 290lbs I know its what I wanted. It's funny how everyone else feels like they know whats best for you. Anyhow, I finally just told them all "I know in the end you will all be there for me just like I'd be there for you because that's what people do when they love and support one another." Of course that left them speechless becuase to responding negatively would have left them feeling like an ass. I was sleeved 10 days ago today and everyone has been falling all over themselves to ensure I have what I need for a good recovery. I know I'll still hear about how I didn't need this later on but I can handle it. GOOD LUCK YOU CAN DO THIS

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Is there a friend, neighbor, coworker, anyone else that can drive you? At this point I would consider take an Uber to and from the hospital just to be sure you get there in time.

You are not alone- I've read so many instances of relatives who try to sabotage their success. It's cruel and unfair that those closest to you are your worst enemies at this time. I feel for you and wish you good luck. Be strong. You need to do this to get out of your body and get healthy.

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I have read a couple of responses here suggesting taking an Uber. My hospital won't let you take an Uber or cab after surgery. A responsible adult has to go up to the floor to take you home. Isn't that standard at other hospitals?

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I have read a couple of responses here suggesting taking an Uber. My hospital won't let you take an Uber or cab after surgery. A responsible adult has to go up to the floor to take you home. Isn't that standard at other hospitals?

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The clinic I'm going to told me about a nurse program that you pay them per hour. They will pick you up from the hospital and stay with you at your house or hotel for however long you need. It's supper helpful for out of town patients. That's the route I'm going since I have to travel so far. Just in case anyone else is having the same sort of issues I was having. Maybe that's something they can look into.