Just recently had a baby, but he is now 18 pounds, (8 pounds over the 10 pound weight restriction). I also have a 2 year old toddler that I will have to keep from picking up as well.

Any suggestions from people who've BEEN THERE, done that?

Also, is 2 weeks enough time for healing and not picking up baby or 30 pound toddler? Is there possibility of the band to slip?

Surgery date is March 16, 2011 !!!!

After one week I was approved for 25 lbs. After two weeks 50+ lbs.

I was able to comfortably lift around 10 lbs four days post op. Then a week post op I was fine with 25 lbs. Then by two weeks I was back to working out with a 55 lbs kettlebell.

Just go at what feels comfortable with you. And get a belly/back belt, it will help.