MrsFlipFlops

If they feel God is okay with it, then some legal label doesn't matter. Perhaps they need the legal label to justify their own actions.

I hear ya Dolphin! I think today is the last of my period, which is ultra exciting.

Where in the constitution does it say we have a right to be married? Besides, prop 8 isn't about denying rights, if you read more information you'll find that the CA constitution provides for civil union rights between same sex couples. Why does it need to be called marriage?

Here's what I don't understand though, and perhaps someone can share their views... In my mind, there is something biologically wrong with being gay/lesbian because if everyone were gay/lesbian, humankind would cease to exist. If nature had intended for same sex people to be together, it would have made it possible for same sex people to reproduce, since we have this internal drive to keep living and what not. I also do not understand how believing against gay marriage makes me intolerant. I'm not speaking anger against anyone, yet somehow I'm a demon because I have a different view. Interracial marriage, again, is a MAN with a WOMAN. Capable of reproduction, man and woman.

I'm shocked that a judge would OVERRULE the people in gay marriage, and that Califonians accepted it! Clearly CA people didn't want gay marriage when they voted, then judges overruled it... and as we're seeing today (although the numbers are too close to call just quite yet) clearly there is STILL a LARGE group of people who oppose gay marriage. I believe in the true and original definition of marriage between a man and a woman.

Both good points. I just know I'm driving my husband crazy. Poor guy doesn't even know how to respond!

You're so right on about the feeling like a woman thing. Who knew that a period had so much power?!

Sometimes I really hate being female. Men just walk around this world without a care, or any feelings! Okay, this isn't a man bashing... but rather a vent about my emotions! For the past few weeks I've been on ther verge of every emotion there is. While I thought driving home was an innocent task, I found myself crying. WHY? I don't know! I'm up, I'm down, I'm happy, I'm sad. I'm elated, I'm crying. I just can't keep myself in check! Ug. I'm a big analyzer. So each time I get an emotion I pry it apart and try to figure out why. I feel some of my feelings have come from the band. I'm not quite sure how to feel about myself. I feel like a new person, and all these years I've blamed my unhappiness on my fatness, but now that I'm starting to thin out (not completely, but getting there) I'm still unhappy in a lot of aspects. It's like it wasn't the fat after all, but me! And then I'm beginning to wonder, if I'm not going to be the fat sarcastic chick anymore, then who will I be? Just some points to think about I suppose, I'm feeling very random, so I'm sorry if this post didn't really come out very clear.

With the exception of a few posts, I just would like to point out that a lot of your posters have started your sentence with something similar to "Many years ago, my EX and I..." or "My exhusband wanted..." Just thinking, if threesomes weren't possibly (again, not saying 100%) destructive, why are there so many exes involved? We all have our own choices to make in our lives and decide what's best for ourselves. But I would think that having a threesome within your marriage should be carefully thought out. Just my two cents.

Florida Pete- When I first started poking around this site and found this thread and saw all the successes, I thought to myself I just couldn't imagine being lighter. I am SO happy with the band. I've lost 80 pounds and am still counting. Congratulations on taking a HUGE step in your life to a healthier, and HAPPIER you. I cannot believe how happy I am now. I'm still 300 pounds, but I feel fantastic! 300 pounds feels better going down than it did going up. Froggi- your surgery is so close! That's just so exciting. Keep us updated on how you're doing. I've really enjoyed all your posts.

Angelic- congrats! I hope the surgery goes well! My sister got banded about a month ago and she is adjusting. I'm glad to hear I'm not alone. I get so worked up when I start reading WebMD. I called my doctor today. I did notice it seemed to lighten today. She said that if it's still going on fast and furious on Wednesday, to come on in since that'll be three weeks from when it started. It seems like 3-4 weeks is really the cut off time of "Okay, people, time to see a doctor." I went from being elated to at least HAVING a period, to being depressed because it was going on for so long! No wonder my husband says my emotions are like a roller coaster ride... "wheeeee!" I've cut so many coupons for pads and tampons in the past few weeks, I'll be glad to have a break. I was concerned about my Iron. If I go in on Wed I'm sure they'll take my blood. But the good thing is I'm not feeling any other "typical" symptoms of having low iron. Thanks for all your replies. Sometimes in the PCOS and band journey, I feel alone. I know I don't post a lot, but I read all your posts... It's nice to know I'm not alone.

I've been waiting for months to post on this thread! I'm finally in the 2's!! I cannot believe it! It's been YEARS! I was 299 about a week and a half ago, but I wanted to make sure I was safely there before celebrating (I tend to fluctuate!) I'm just so excited to be in the 200's, even if it's 299! You guys are so motivating, thanks so much!

I'm not looking for medical advice, I'm scheduling a doctor's appointment in the next couple days... but I'm wondering if anyone has experienced the same type thing. I hadn't gotten my period in two years. I got it really light in September. And then for the past three weeks I've had it. At first it was light, but for several days it's been very heavy. When I get periods, they're typically very heavy, so the heaviness I'm not so worried about.... it's the length of time in addition to the heaviness. I don't want to become anemic! :rolleyes2: Can anyone else relate to this type experience?

You know, after responding I've had a bad feeling about this whole discussion. Let's stick to the topic of abortion. I feel that conversation should be uplifting and cause us to think about our previous thoughts, but this thread, myself included, has used it as a means to insult and belittle. So I apologize for making this conversation anything but.

I never said more child abuse happens in black families. If you read my statement, you would see that I stated that most abuse THAT'S reported happens in black families! We have no way to track what's not reported. I do not think that most abuse happens with black families, I'm not that naive. And yes, you say that what you see on TV about Florida child abuse is accurate, what the common man sees on TV is white people abusing white children. The media portrays it's own form of racism. Of all the cases I had in Florida, only one that was picked up by the media involved a black child. Even though these cases were the same to the ones that were picked up involving a white child. And that's a personal experience statistic. My point was stating that killing these children that are abused/neglected, be they black or white, it's ridiculous.

Also, states offer the safe haven law. If you have an unwanted child, take your baby to the nearest fire department or hospital. No questions asked. We have choices before we jump into bed with that man. Exercise your right to choose! Choose safe relationships, birth control, and sound judgement.

Cyndi- my career is social work as well and I've spent a few years doing investigations for the states of Florida and Texas. However, despite the awful conditions I see for these poor children, killing them is never my solution. We should punish a child for the poor choices a parent makes? A parent is accountable for their own choices. I've seen awesome accomplishments from some of these young people. Even after being born addicted to drugs, or having FAS. I've seen FAS children go on to graduate high school and lead productive lives. I've seen rape survivors and burn victims show tremendous strength. I've also seen the parents of these once "unwanted" children improve! Your solution is a poor one. Not only would these children get born anyway (abortion is legal, yet these parents chose against abortion) but it's a form of genocide against the poor. (Because although abuse happens in all categories, let's be honest here that most abuse- at least that's reported- occurs in the ghetto) I think I could also make the stretch that it's racism! In all the areas I've worked, most my clients have been black. Let's have some more realistic solutions people. We can't just kill babies because we don't want to deal with them, or because we've made a bad choice, or because we think they may lead a poor life.

BJean- you talk as if there aren't lies coming from both sides of the camp. I'm not willing to be so naive to say one party is any better than the other. On both sides you have good people and you have bad people. On BOTH sides, we have honest people and dishonest people. It all comes down to which party supports our beliefs the most. As far as you saying "I realize that Republicans aren't used to this behavior from Democrats, but let's face it you sure can't blame them. We've had to put up with the likes of Rush Limbaugh and Ann Coulter for years and from someone like T. Boone Pickins and other anonymous authors of extremist garbage fostered to make people fear Obama - a man who has worked hard for people - and a man who has been a Christian his entire life - a man who has been severly maligned and who has seen fit to rise above it." And? The media, historically and is currently, more liberal. The only station that is conservative is FoxNews. I don't complain just because the news reporters don't agree with me. Move on and let's discuss issues. On a funny note, my husband says, in response to this thread question "No, I think we're only half ready, ironically, Obama fits that too." lol. To everyone reading this, don't vote based on everything you read, vote on the issues, and don't get taken in by wolves who will try to distract you by posting link after irrelevant link.

Congratulations! It must feel so nice to finally see that little 2 on the scale!

I got on the scale today and it said 306! I can't wait until I can officially post here I'm under 300! Guys, we can do it, we deserve to do it! You are all rock stars and sincerely continue to give me motivation to not give up.

Having spent several years in Florida, I know where you're coming from. As long as you're safe, caving in for hurricanes can be good family bonding time. :sad: My husband and I have the best memories from that time. IN fact, on of the most romantic things he's done was right after a storm when we had no cold Water. He boiled a whole tub full of hot water on the grill (with charcoal and everything) so I wouldn't have to take a cold shower. Good luck.

Wow, Froggi, I'm a little shocked to hear you say that. I think saying 5 yr olds know more about sex is a poor excuse to approve sex education for kindergarten. It's a better reason for society to make different changes, like limiting exposure- not increasing it. A 5 year old does not need to know these kind of things. I don't know what kind of 5 year olds you all know, but I've never met a 5 year old that I felt needed education in this department.

Hi Everyone! My husband and I are vacationing in Chicago this weekend. Since I LOVE food, I'm wanting to visit some "classics" where I'll really get the Chicago taste, but not too big porportions or difficulty in eating. Maybe some band friend places. Does anyone have any highlights we should hit? Since of course with the band I can't eat everywhere I would normally! :biggrin: lol Thanks!

ssfl- congrats on your weight loss!! You're doing amazingly!

It's funny to me they would rather have you order nothing than to order off the kids menu. I generally order a normal portion and make it something my husband likes so he can have it for dinner the next day. :lovechoc: