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Spent several hours at the mall today. I haven't done that in 5-6 years. Today I went to "normal" stores, bought clearance shorts and capris in a size 14R (down from 22/24W 6 mos. ago), shoes 1 size smaller than 6 mos. ago, and two shirts in a size SMALL (down from 1-2X). The size small is an outlier 'cause I've got some big hooters, but I'll take it! I can't remember the last time I didn't have to shop in the "big lady" section. Still can't believe this is all real.
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This is not the easy way out by any means. there is alot of work involved in using this tool correctly. Your children will be gone one day on to their own lives, this is your time enjoy it and do not feel guilty for taking care of yourself.

I am a mother and a wife, but can not relate. However, I did want to comment. You are being selfish? Why because now you have chosen to concentrate on yourself? It sounds to me like they are trying to manipulate you into not doing something for yourself, so that they do not need to take care of responsiblities that you have always taken care of. We as moms always tend to take care of everyone elses needs forgetting our own. I am sorry that you are going through this. I hope that you decide to proceed on with the surgery. By investing in yourself you will be better all the way around. As far as your relationship with your husband, from what you are saying it doesn't seem like he has been supportive of other things in your life? I am just guessing based on your statement. Maybe it is time for some couples therapy to get to the root of the issue.

This year will be my 15th wedding anniversary and DH and I were together for 3 years before we got married so I haven't dated in a LOOOOONG time butif I were dating now with my sleeve, I would not bring it up on the first date unless it was specifically questioned (i.e. You didn't eat much, did it taste ok?) and even then I wouldn't share that I'd had sleeve surgery. I'd probably answer roundabout.
There are some things I think people need to be up front about. There are some things they do not. Private medical past is one of those. You don't need to tell him you've had VSG surgery any more than he needs to tell you whether or not he has his appendix. It's just not relevant to what's going on, and if anything would probably make for an awkward time (chances are, though not necessarily).

I was sleeved on 7/17/12 and totally feel your pain. I am taking prevacid daily per doctor's orders but I had reflux prior to surgery as well. I still cannot tolerate protein drinks of any type. Not the Isopure premixed fruit drinks, not the GNC mixes or even the BariCare mixes that I was on prior to surgery. I am worried about this as my doc presses the importance of protein as a healing mechanism but right now I could care less. If I cannot get or keep it down then it is no longer important right now. My focus right now is staying hydrated as I can only sip liquids which does not nearly quench my ungodly thirst.

I don't ever feel hungry but you still get the hunger growls some people say its indigestion or acid reflux. Early out you still feel hungry cuz the grehlin is still in your system. The mind hunger sure plays tricks on you and can make you think you are hungry.
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I have had trouble sleeping in my bed. I have had to sleep in the recliner or in the other bed, which is one of the sleep numbers that you can sit up a bit. I am used to sleeping on my side, but every time I do it feels like my stomach is hanging or something, even putting a pillow under it doesn't really help. And when I do sleep I can only go about 4-6 hours without waking up with pain.
Did your physician okay anything to help sleep? If they say it's fine, maybe you could try some liquid benadryl?
I hope you start sleepin soon!

I guess walking 4 miles every other day is paying off down 4 more pounds woo hoo!!
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Or, people could stop being such jerks to one another and realize at one point we were ALL obese, all have/had an obvious food issue and all are HUMAN. Just sayin.

I really like the "when I want to get fat again" response. I think that about covers it!

Oh, the questions! To this question I just started saying, " Just because I can eat something, doesn't mean I should, " in a really innocent voice and then just smile. Or, sometimes, if people are annoying me with their questions/ pressuring me I'll say, "Well, if you really want me to take a bite, I will. But don't get mad when I projectile vomit on you in about 15 mins. If it doesn't agree with me." That usually shuts them up and makes them feel awkward. Lol. What annoys me more are the, "when are you going to stop losing?" and "you're too skinny" and "it's good to see you eating something!" comments I get. Really? They never said anything when I was obese, but now that I'm actually getting healthy you're going to make me feel bad about doing it!? To these people I've started saying, " it makes me feel so good that you love me enough to express your concern. I promise I'm doing everything to be healthy, and my doctor is taking good care of me." And, "I know you're just teasing about me being too skinny, but it really bothers me. I've gone through a lot of physical changes lately, and I'd really just like to be "normal." not fat, not too skinny, just normal." So now I mostly just get encouragement. I think most people mean well, so I try to be polite.

Haha this is fun! Too bad it doesn't have an "extra roll" feature Lol

Weight Loss Simulator: hair color, etc. and is available for both men and women. This gives a nice visual "goal".
Enjoy!!!

I'd love to be 140 shoot my mini goal is to be 199 anything but 200 lol

When I woke up I was in a great mood. I went into surgery humming and I woke up with the thumbs up and smiling. The first day and night were fine. I know I hurt, but the pain wasn't overwhelming. I walked 3 times that night.
The next morning, day two was rough. I had a little tiny bit of nausea, but I was worried about the upper gi leak test. Luckily they gave me an anti-nausea shot (plus I had a patch) and I went for the leak test, the gastrique was horrible. I had an allergic reaction to the stuff and I broke out in hives. They never saw that happen to someone before. I was extremely nauseated and sick the rest of the day and they gave me tons of different anti-nausea medications. I still walked a lot. The third day, wasn't too bad. I was in the hospital 5 days. I had a drain 9 days, so I went home with the drain.
I made sure I walked....a lot. I brought decaff peppermint tea and truvia with me to the hospital. It made everything bearable.
Go into the surgery with a positive attitude. I had to remain strong and positive for my husband, son and parents. They were all terrified. I refused to let them see me terrified.
Sometimes all the world indeeds a stage and we are merely players....one of my mottos is fake it til you make it. I put on a brave face and I woke up with one.
I had complications during my surgery, some very serious ones that had nothing to do with the sleeve, and my family seeing me wake up after spending 7 hours in surgery, and 2 hours in recovery was just what they needed.
Best of luck to you. Smile, go into the hospital with a favorite song playing in your head and hum it to yourself into surgery.
My father had surgery recently and before surgery I told him that I used the family theme song (Sanford & Son) as my theme song into surgery and I hummed it to the nurses and he laughed. He said, I just want to wake up after surgery, and he sung, "Wake me up, before you go go" and we laughed. It's hilarious cause he's 74.
Edited to say* He actually sang it to his anesthesiologist before he went to surgery....
Good luck again.

Thank you for this. I'm 11 days post-op. I went to Wal-Mart yesterday and it kicked my butt. I just wanted to cry! I hate being so fatigued. I'm glad it's normal. I'm supposed to return to work this evening and I'm slightly terrified that I'm going to pass out.

Today is surgery day. We'll be leaving in 30 minutes. I'm hoping there are no complications and that I can lose this weight for good.
I won't ever forget how it is- the stigma associated with obesity, not to meantion the health issues and depression.
I vow not to ever lose the humility and empathy that being this big has helped create. It is one very endearing quality that we all have.
See ya on the other side.

I found an excellent site to help with this on toomuchonherplate.com EXCELLENT SITE. PLEASE, PLEASE CHECK IT OUT. THE BEST FREE THERAPY EVER. DESIGNED JUST FOR US. TO EXPRESS HOW HELPFUL IT IS, I HAVE POSTED IT ON VARIOUS SECTIONS OF THIS SITE. LET ME KNOW IF YOU FOUND IT HELPFUL. I AM WORKING HARD TO ASSIST MYSELF ON ISSUES I KNOW I WILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH. THE SURGERY WILL HELP ME PHYSICALLY, BUT, IT IS THE MIND I WORRY ABOUT. I MUST LEARN TO KEEP THE WEIGHT OFF AND ACCEPT THAT I CANNOT DO THE SAME THINGS AND EXPECT DIFFERENT RESULTS. I AM SCHEDULED TO BE SLEEVED ON MONDAY, MAY 14, AND THE FEARS ARE BEGINNING TO HAUNT ME..I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU TOO.

I'm May 16th too!! Looks like we've got quite the club going that day

May 16 for me too! Another sleeve sista yay!

May 16 for me too! Another sleeve sista yay!

Congrats! I'm right behing you May 16!

Surgery scheduled for May 29th!!

I wrote to some of the companies of the popular ones and I have a bunch of link to get samples at affordable prices so you don't lose any money. I ordered samples from unjury, OhYeah, and Chike. Here are the links.
Unjury - • We do sell Starter Kits and we have a 100% Satisfaction Guarantee. If you don’t like one of the five flavors, you can call us and get a one-fifth refund, for example. Here is a link to more information about our Starter Kit: http://www.unjury.com/store/protein/unjury-protein/unjury-starter-pack/unjury-starter-kit.html • Or you can just try a few single-serve packets, and you can get a refund on any or all of those as well. Here’s that link: http://www.unjury.com/store/protein/unjury-protein/unjury-protein-samples.html
Chike - I wanted to let you know about our Sample Pack program. The program lets you get 5 of our Travel Packs, which are full serving packets and the same ones we sell on our website for $2, at no cost to you. The only thing that we require you to pay is $6.95 for shipping. That is $10 worth of free product. You can order online at www.chikenutrition.com, or by calling our Toll Free number at 800-929-9439
OhYeah - http://ohyeahnutrition.myshopify.com/collections/ohyeah-sample-kits
I hope this helps!

Waiting here for a room to get ready for surgery.thanks to everyone wishing me well and congrats. I start my new life today.