marielena3155

I put this off a year ago. Got a tummy tuck and though I look ok, I'm still fat. I'm reconsidering this surgery and my bmi is 32. I am tired of the constant depression , the inadequacy. I am just done.

Ugh even though I want to do this soooo bad! I'm to scared to follow through, specially with the lack of support. My date is march 25 but I'm seriously doubting ill make it to Mexico. Is just so scary for me

Haha funny that I see this. Today I got my preop an post op diet and I was like omg this is going to be hard can I do this forever?

My husband says that he is just scared and has been very concerned for me.. But look I truly know where I stand. If I do this, it will be forme. I appreciate that he is worried but his absence and negativity just put a huge dent on my love for him.

By the way... My husband can kiss my ass any day of the week because if there is one thing he can't control is my hard earned money... I'm paying for my surgery with my own money I have been saving. Every time I saved before we had to use it for something for the house or family, not this time sorry. I save 5000 to do this and wether I do it or not he can't talk to me about money. He has not been supportive in any freaking way Not economically or emotionally so again... Kiss my ass, I can tell you this process has been real tough and disappointing. We on risking grounds as you can see lol. I have been re evaluating why we are together...If I can't have your financial, physical or emotional support why the hell are you around smh? He's a great dad and person and all but this has brought things to light that i do not like and even if we can get past it... Is embedded in my soul.

Thank you so much for that I'm .im still not100 percent convinced and is all due to the complications and my family being a pain in the ass. But I wan to e skinny so bad!

Thank you brainy babe I appreciate your kind words.

You guys are awesome... I'm so happy I found this forum. You guys have been my light in the dark

You are awesome for doing this

Bid daddy joe I'm also march 26

Hi I'm traveling from Kissimmee fl to dr. Kelly n march anyone up for some group support ? I would love to know who is also planning for that week?

I compete here in Florida we are doing mud endeavor in march 3 days before my surgery ( yikes ) My husband is training for savage race in July... If I'm well by them I might just join him!

Yea I think of anything agonizing me, that is my toughest issue

Complications leaks and or worse hospitalization. I'm afraid of how my little girl would handle the situation if I went through that. Also the head hunger

I'm a march sleever... Can't say I'm excited but I want it over lol

Measure some.... All I can say is thank you and I have the utmost respect for how much of you you decided to share with us. If this doesn't help anyone else, know that I will be reading your whole story all the way to dr. Kelly's OR. He was my choice from the beginning ... He just felt righ

I saved since September and by march I will be ready to go with dr. Kelly!

Hi I'm 30 I 5'5 weight 209 pound bmi of 34.6 looking forward to doing this surgery to see if I could get my happy back. Lol I have not ONE supportive family member including my husband ( he thinks I'm just freaking lazy) and due to the lack of understanding, I have been yes and no on this surgery, one minute yes one minute no. And is truly based on their opinions not mine.but I'm miserable, to the point that my marriage is in jeopardy and I'm turning into a hermit. I've lost my self confidence, my self esteem and going to the gym is agonizing. I'm having a hard time getting through this but I seriously need to have this surgery. I'm scared and anxious of it because I have a little girl and it makes me feel bad and guilty that I'm putting myself in danger due to being somewhat shallow and wanting to be skinny. My little girl is thick too and I don't wish this self doubt, confidence lacking, can't look in the mirror way of living on my worst enemy... So I really don't want her to ever feel like that either. So I'm stuck do I do it out of vanity and own it, or not do it keep struggling being unhappy until I completely breakdown but everyone else will be happy with my decision to not do it. Smh