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Why do women have anal sex?



Why do women have anal sex?  

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  1. 1. Why do women have anal sex?

    • I like it. It feels good. I have had an orgasm that way.
      214
    • I would do it only to please my partner
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    • I tried it and didn't like it
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    • No way I would even try it.
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It's in this very same thread!

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Altough I do not care for full on anal sex I do like the stimulation from other sources other than the penis. HAHAHA! My husband however will not let me near his butt! LOL! I have known a few guys before my husband who liked a finger in their butt during a bj but I never obliged due to the fact I was inexperienced and not as open to the idea. Even now though I don't think I would do it. I couldn't eat with that hand ever again!LOL!

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I think my homie Glouc is daring....nay, challenging me to post such a thread in the men's room....

I didn't think I was being subtle....How's this:

I triple-dog dare you!

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Well Me and my husband have done it a few times this way and prolly 3 outta 5 times it was awesome!!!!! I really like anal, if I can relax enough for it to happen. If you can't relax then it hurts badly!!!!!! And feels like your pooping the biggest BM you've ever had!! lol But it's something to try if you with someone you really are comfortable with and can have fun with it.

Ashley

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I think there are two issues with anal for most women. One is between the ears and the other between the cheeks. You can't solve either of them in a single night no matter how much Jaegermeister and Astroglide are at hand.

My wife was against anything back there when we first met but was willing to experiment to satisfy me. Started out with fingers, toys, licking etc and making sure she finished while I was playing. Over the course of months she got physically and emotionally comfortable to progress to anal sex. We've been together 28 years and anal play has been on the menu the entire time.

When some gal's story starts out: "Well, I was drunk and my new BF asked me to bend over the sink and let him shove..." there are two potential endings.

1) ... it was the greatest experience ever. Found in Penthouse Forums and cheesey late night talk shows

2) ... it felt like a wolverine was trying to dig a new burrow for the winter. Heard from women going from anal virginity to total penetration in one session.

YMMV...

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And does your wife have an orgasm from anal sex or are you stimulating the clitoris at the same time?

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Hey y'all...

Had to weigh in on this one...

First hubby - no desire to enjoy anal sex. He didn't ask, I didn't suggest, and the couple of times he got close, I redirected him promptly :eek:

Current hubby likes it - a lot. :drool: We went slow at first, lots of lube, play with fingers, etc. We both had to get used to the idea. For him it was all about me being comfortable, for me it was curiosity and wanting to try something new. We stopped for a while, and he thought I didn't enjoy it, so he didn't suggest it.

Recently we started up again, because I suggested it. I informed him (gently) that I enjoyed it as much as he did, so what was he waiting for! :thumbup: :tt2:

Use lots of lube - but use the special-purpose stuff - baby oil isn't the right thing to use. Without being too graphic, start with fingers and progress to bigger things. Go slow with forward movement, and he always lets me control the tempo. :tongue:

The best times I've had were with him on his back, me on top of him facing up to the ceiling, while he plays with my breasts / nipples and my genitals below. Talk about going off like a rocket! It's also good for giggles when you try to roll together from a side-by-side position to the gal-on-top position...many times we've had to stop (and stop laughing) before we could continue...:w00t:

Always wash afterwards - make it fun - and you'll have no problems.

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i have had probably one of the most intense super orgasms ever during anal.

just like everyone has said, when done right, it can be great. but that is the key! lots of lube and slow. i read in one post that maybe after an orgasm is the best time to try it so you are relaxed. i know for me its best if i havent yet. just another example of something different for everyone.

and i was just wondering if this thread ever got started in the men's room??? curious! curious!

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i was just wondering if this thread ever got started in the men's room??? curious! curious!

Uh, no....that would ruin my "street cred", lol

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You want to ask the men on their forum why women have anal sex? Go for it. Probably won't get much of a response because those of us that know won't share and those that don't know are too embarrassed to ask.:)

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No! I want to ask the men if they like anal play on them!!!

Go for it. Just make sure you're ready for the any answer you might get.:bananalama:

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