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so first the picture... i dont like showing my face online... so sorry. But yea

starting weight 317lb and size 57 pants and 4XL shirt

Now 186lb size 34 pants and size large shirt which is a little big

So before surgery i did not date for a very long time. I was really big and really never found anyone interested in me. Now almost 1 year and 1 month after surgery i get hit on a ton... and for me being a guy that is awesome. Literally had 2 girls at work fighting over me which was insane. Had to put a stop to it because it was getting bad lol. But wow. i swear if i was taller than 5'4 i would probably get hit on more haha. But its nice. My best friend said to buy a wedding band and wear it to stop them from hitting on me lol. But its nice noticing girls looking and not looking at me like ewwww he is huge.

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so first the picture... i dont like showing my face online... so sorry. But yea
starting weight 317lb and size 57 pants and 4XL shirt
Now 186lb size 34 pants and size large shirt which is a little big
So before surgery i did not date for a very long time. I was really big and really never found anyone interested in me. Now almost 1 year and 1 month after surgery i get hit on a ton... and for me being a guy that is awesome. Literally had 2 girls at work fighting over me which was insane. Had to put a stop to it because it was getting bad lol. But wow. i swear if i was taller than 5'4 i would probably get hit on more haha. But its nice. My best friend said to buy a wedding band and wear it to stop them from hitting on me lol. But its nice noticing girls looking and not looking at me like ewwww he is huge.
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You look amazing, be proud of your achievements and let's hope the complimentary hits continue until you find the right one for you.

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To be honest, sadly, it seems woman nowadays don't care if you are wearing a wedding ring or not. Maybe it's always been that way..IDK.

But congrats on your success and great faceless pictures. xD Very inspiring!!

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Congrats on your success!

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