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[FluffyChix 17,409]

On 7/20/2019 at 4:51 PM, sillykitty said:

I think this is a combo of body dysmorphia and not wearing fitted enough clothes.

I think that your jeans and your dresses are at least a size too big, and not making the most of your figure.

There is also the self critical factor. We are the same weight (you're 1" taller & +5 lbs in these pics, so the same), and you'd tell me I was crazy if I said my waist is thick and my thighs were fluffy, right?

No way would I even think of you as fluffy. I see you as svelte and slim with a perfect figure/proportion and smokin' hot! I just think I carry my weight differently (in my lower abdomen and booty/thighs in a jiggly loose sorta way. LOL. And yes, of course you're right...it's BD and a highly self-critical lens. I see myself very harshly and I don't apply that lens to others.

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And of course you're right. It IS stinkin-thinkin lol! Thanks!

6 hours ago, demayome said:

t might be time to get a before pic out, to remind your stink'n think'n brain where you are today, what an accomplishment you have made and how beautiful and healthy your new body is

Edited July 22, 2019 by FluffyChix

[sillykitty 10,704]

9 hours ago, FluffyChix said:

No way would I even think of you as fluffy. I see you as svelte and slim with a perfect figure/proportion and smokin' hot! I just think I carry my weight differently (in my lower abdomen and booty/thighs in a jiggly loose sorta way. LOL. And yes, of course you're right...it's BD and a highly self-critical lens. I see myself very harshly and I don't apply that lens to others.

I'm choosing clothing/undergaments that helps make me look thin and well proportioned. My bras are stuffed, there are Spanx under my Elle Woods dress. High waisted and skin tight are your friend. Trust me I have a lot of jiggle. My stomach is nowhere near flat, unless I will it to be with spandex. Even then I have a small pooch, which I am embracing as my "feminine shape" 😂 You're giving me too much credit and you too little

[sillykitty 10,704]

On 7/21/2019 at 2:25 PM, Healthy_life2 said:

Outfit of the day. I love having girly moments in dresses, but this is what I normally wear.

So much arm and leg envy!

(But I'm not willing to put all the hard work into them that you are!)

[sillykitty 10,704]

Typical work from home outfit (although more coordinated than usual today 😂)

[Deedee12 1,859]

Sightseeing today!

Gorgeous!!!!!

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[AngieBear 2,524]

15 hours ago, Freiabr said:

Sightseeing today!

I love this!!!

[Frustr8 7,886]

And I am out of gray- black- brown forever! Bought into that Dark Shades are Slimming HooHah! Have you EVER heard anyone tell a Charcoal Briquet they are looking Especially Slim Today? Nope, me neither! So Frustr8's Sartorial Rebirth? Colors, prints, Maybe polka dots? Leggings, always envied others wearing them, Now I do in 17-19 JUNIORS,my original goal was a 15 Junior, so Achievable? Oh Yeah!.And a NSV - type Victory? Saw my profile as I passed something Reflective, I am still a Larger- than- Life person, this regenerated Tomboy will NEVER BE PETITE, but no booty protruding in the back, little if any Pooch in the front, I actually look like somebody You might want to meet and greet on the street instead of a Train Wreck of Flesh, And I Think I actually look Taller now! And you'll please Excuse my 💦 of Joy because although it too also happened for OTHERS it never did before for ME!
Although the Bariatric Clinic has gone out of their way to ignore and frustrate ME, Thank You Again Dr Needleman ! Between your skill and my perseverance ---A Miracle has been Wrought! Frustr8 is Absolutely, Positively Fantabulous!🌈😛😛😛

[FluffyChix 17,409]

43 minutes ago, Frustr8 said:

And I am out of gray- black- brown forever! Bought into that Dark Shades are Slimming HooHah! Have you EVER heard anyone tell a Charcoal Briquet they are looking Especially Slim Today? Nope, me neither! So Frustr8's Sartorial Rebirth? Colors, prints, Maybe polka dots? Leggings, always envied others wearing them, Now I do in 17-19 JUNIORS,my original goal was a 15 Junior, so Achievable? Oh Yeah!.And a NSV - type Victory? Saw my profile as I passed something Reflective, I am still a Larger- than- Life person, this regenerated Tomboy will NEVER BE PETITE, but no booty protruding in the back, little if any Pooch in the front, I actually look like somebody You might want to meet and greet on the street instead of a Train Wreck of Flesh, And I Think I actually look Taller now! And you'll please Excuse my 💦 of Joy because although it too also happened for OTHERS it never did before for ME!
Although the Bariatric Clinic has gone out of their way to ignore and frustrate ME, Thank You Again Dr Needleman ! Between your skill and my perseverance ---A Miracle has been Wrought! Frustr8 is Absolutely, Positively Fantabulous!🌈😛😛😛

pics or it didn't happen.

[FluffyChix 17,409]

13 hours ago, sillykitty said:

Typical work from home outfit (although more coordinated than usual today 😂)

Adorable. Now please reassure me that no Spanx or tube socks were harmed in the making of this at home casual photo? Cuz you still look very slim and svelte and no pooch to me.

13 hours ago, sillykitty said:

I'm choosing clothing/undergaments that helps make me look thin and well proportioned. My bras are stuffed, there are Spanx under my Elle Woods dress. High waisted and skin tight are your friend. Trust me I have a lot of jiggle. My stomach is nowhere near flat, unless I will it to be with spandex. Even then I have a small pooch, which I am embracing as my "feminine shape" 😂 You're giving me too much credit and you too little

Ok, pix of the spanx style you have. I've tried so many time to buy them, but it's like "Advanced" work for me and my eyes end up crossed and I get stalled with indecision about which is the correct version!

And the foobs are still fine, but I still use the padding that came with my sports bras from Big Lots. They are perfect little bra stuffers to make you look full and fab!

[GreenTealael 24,852]

Staying casual these days

Edited July 23, 2019 by GreenTealael

[Orchids&Dragons 9,046]

14 minutes ago, GreenTealael said:

Staying casual these days

You look outstanding, especially for a week post-op!

[GreenTealael 24,852]

1 minute ago, Orchids&Dragons said:

You look outstanding, especially for a week post-op!

💜 Thank You 💜

I can't wait to talk to my Surgeon tomorrow and ask if I was the placebo control group

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[sillykitty 10,704]

14 minutes ago, Orchids&Dragons said:

You look outstanding, especially for a week post-op!

Agree!!!

[FluffyChix 17,409]

Triple agree! 🍾

[Freiabr 425]

Out and about.