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Here's a great link to a "closed" FB group, led by a woman who is a licensed therapist and who is successfully maintaining her VSG losses. She's pretty awesome! She has tons of fabulous free information and videos, and also offers very economical courses on doing the head work! I've learned so much from her!

It's called Bariatric Mind Masters. You have to join FB, and request to join this group. No one except fellow group members can see or share stuff from this group.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/270989040163983/?ref=group_header

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Here's another woman who has it going on! She is a contributor here on the BP Online Magazine, too!

Kristin Lloyd Moussa is a licensed Health Coach and is a PhD student. She's also successfully maintaining the losses from VSG surgery quite a few years ago. She is so helpful and encouraging, but she is very pragmatic and tells it like it is!

She also has a book and a website.

The Website

http://www.bariatricmindset.com/?fbclid=IwAR3-TSINK21o5M35IoLE2anRL1Uj3NgCkdHGltwCNuqjvmDeQxMkyyMRB7M

The FB Page. This isn't a private page, so others see what you post on it.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/bariatricmindset/

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This is Patricia Hill at My Bariatric Kitchen. She is also a licensed Health Coach and is an author, coach, and recipe creator. She puts together a weekly meal plan service. And this is a closed FB group. She has also had WLS and is successfully maintaining her weight long term.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/mybariatrickitchen/

She is joined by Kristin Lloyd Moussa and a personal trainer to deliver a great plan for lifestyle modification and she shoots from the hip. Gosh they all create so much free information in addition to offering more personalized support. I highly recommend Patricia and company.

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Oh dang. I can't go in and edit now. It's past the window, but I just want to note this very important distinction as well:

Revisions can be due to medical issues and complications. Second surgery is not always about noncompliance weight gain. (We see noncompliance so many times, and it's hard not to be affected by these tales of misery.)

Thanks!

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Regain and struggles can be heated topics for bariatric patients.

I don’t want anyone feeling shame for a weight gain or general weight loss surgery struggles. We should feel supported and know that we can get back on track. Understand, most of us are dealing with the same weight loss mental battles.

Obesity is not simple, Even after surgery and goal we all have risk factors for regain. Genetics, medications, medical issues, complications, hormones, old behaviors. The list goes on.

My hope is we can share some resources to deal with the mental battles. Would love to see podcasts, books, youtube videos.

I just came across this pod cast. It’s long. Would love your opinions

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/101-addressing-weight-regain-with-angela-fitch-md/id662443588?i=1000436129936

This one its next on my list to listen to. Titled they didn’t staple my brain. Love it.

https://www.weightlosssurgerypodcast.com/080-they-didnt-staple-my-brain-a-conversation-with-dr-janine-kyrillos/

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9 hours ago, Healthy_life2 said:

Regain and struggles can be heated topics for bariatric patients.

I don’t want anyone feeling shame for a weight gain or general weight loss surgery struggles. We should feel supported and know that we can get back on track. Understand, most of us are dealing with the same weight loss mental battles.

Obesity is not simple, Even after surgery and goal we all have risk factors for regain. Genetics, medications, medical issues, complications, hormones, old behaviors. The list goes on.

My hope is we can share some resources to deal with the mental battles. Would love to see podcasts, books, youtube videos.

I just came across this pod cast. It’s long. Would love your opinions

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/101-addressing-weight-regain-with-angela-fitch-md/id662443588?i=1000436129936

This one its next on my list to listen to. Titled they didn’t staple my brain. Love it.

https://www.weightlosssurgerypodcast.com/080-they-didnt-staple-my-brain-a-conversation-with-dr-janine-kyrillos/

OH absolutely! Agree with everything you said!!! ((hugs))

This post isn't about judgement or finger pointing either. It's just about you know, for me, it's about "owning my sh*t". That's the foundation of being able to walk out in change. Right? I truly hope this thread is used as a place keeper to park tons of links and resources for working on our mental game--vanquishing head hunger, reigning in the cravings that contribute to back sliding into old behaviors where we eat for comfort, eat past our restriction, chase satiety, chase the full feeling. You know?

I will check the link out later today and get back to you!! I love pod casts.

I'm also learning how tremendously our thought processes with regards to food is really impacted by our own gut biome!! We "become" what we eat! Who knew?

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Here's a new FB graphic from the food coach Patricia Hill at My Bariatric Kitchen:

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This is so cool! Where are you? I'm firmly in the learning zone!!!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/mybariatrickitchen/?fref=nf

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Finally: Dietary Fats Entering the Brain May Be The Link Between Depression and Obesity

https://www.gla.ac.uk/news/headline_646867_en.html?fbclid=IwAR2bfm3VxplexXCJlnpQKwu2MZivmIb5ShxNUZ9GD_VTElf_oCOiYV_PaNI

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Cool study from NIH.gov offers great definitions of important aspects of the surgery and substantial recommendations for interventions!!! Woot!

Interventions To Improve Long Term Weight Loss in Patients Following Bariatric Surgery: Challenges and Solutions

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4485844/?fbclid=IwAR3qJoBMKgvuI2v2B_nYZz6uW0xJdxuzv6ahr4v6DJWSNwPFGMoo5rLcxOU

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Dang! There was just so much good stuff today. Sorry to overshare! This is by Debbi, the Shrink on Your Couch. I just love her message and also her position/tone and compassion she offers!

If you are struggling with regain or are stalled and feeling despondent and hopeless!

Hope you take courage and are helped by this YouTube!

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Good morning! More from our Shrink On The Couch!

Head Hunger--The Answer!

Do you struggle with Head Hunger? You know, the urge to eat mindlessly between meals--maybe even continuously? I'm not talking about eating for comfort. I'm talking about eating for pleasure--the fun of it--the gustatory satisfaction of it!

So here it is, a solution for dealing with head hunger and wrangling the saboteur that lurks inside each of us!

http://theshrinkonyourcouch.com/head-hunger-the-answer/?fbclid=IwAR2A0Wn6RLwL7bGR9a1KpHteDB0FqwcPBwkGrn2BasGeBtJmM3ZqC8NWPvY

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14 minutes ago, Hop_Scotch said:

Thanks for posting the links to various resources.

I have been watching some of the shrink on your couch videos, what a wonderful, engaging and compassionate person she is.

IKR?!!! Doesn't she make you feel a sense of internal hope for yourself? I think her message and tools she teaches are real game changers to me, anyway. I hope it helps others!

On the boards here we so often concentrate on the nuts/bolts of just progressing through our journeys, and we don't talk so much about the "HOW" you fix your head and all those things that contributed to your weight gain--and they are all so different for each of us and multi-factoral. Right? No 2 people are the same!

So I'm really glad to hear from others about their journeys and that some of these tools are working!! And if you have knowledge or information or access to tools that can help us build on our mental/emotional/spiritual selves that will make the physical results more permanent, please, please, please share with us?!!!!

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