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1 hour ago, Linda Cooney said:

Just be careful out there. If I were to think of dating again, I’d have an online search app that told me a little about their past before I’d meet a stranger

Agreed. Which is why I'm done.

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4 hours ago, Linda Cooney said:

Just be careful out there. If I were to think of dating again, I’d have an online search app that told me a little about their past before I’d meet a stranger

It's really not that bad. You just meet at a busy public place, have your wits about you. I'm sure there are millions of first dates that happen everyday. Nothing to be scared about.

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I know I was shopping at the good will store last Christmas I were singing to everybody that was there a fellow step in front of me and start singing to make along story short we switch phone numbers he call me 2 months ago to move him to a location were he wold be living so!✊🏿😿no car would walk to work to and from no Teeth and had the Nerve to say I believe I have seen my wife cause I laugh we do have to be Careful

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4 hours ago, GreenTealael said:

Alright. Overhearing my neighbors exercising while I'm reading zombie novels, eye opening. I'm going to give it another try.

Yay for cardio! :P

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Just stick a bookmark in the novel. Somewhere out there is Someone to make Beautiful Music 🎶with. I never will give up hope for YOU!

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13 years ago I met my husband on a website for chubby girls and guys that like chubby girls! He is amazing and I feel very lucky that he is supporting me in my weight loss journey (I was sleeved on Oct 10th) even though I know he loves me the way I am! I would definitely recommend online dating - but would obviously only meet in public! Good luck meeting someone - no matter how you do it!!

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OMFG

DUMPING while on a date.

I just wanted to cry.

Finally went on a date again . Met someone fantastic, decided on sushi, but most sushi will literally kill me so I had tempura vegetables and scallion pancakes. Dumping. I had to keep making odd excuses why I need to run to the restroom. They mostly centred around being super hydrated but I was very unfocused. I hope it wasn't super noticable, but I'm sure it was...😥

I hope he wants to go out again. I am just going to order Water, coffee or tea.

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Awwwww man!!! I'm so sorry to hear this!!! I hope he calls again too!!!! Do you think he had any idea? ((Hope you feel better today--drink lots of fluids!!))

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I can tell you here in Charlotte, NC - a matchmaker service was well over $1000.
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On 10/21/2018 at 4:01 AM, GreenTealael said:

OMFG

DUMPING while on a date.

I just wanted to cry.

Finally went on a date again . Met someone fantastic, decided on sushi, but most sushi will literally kill me so I had tempura vegetables and scallion pancakes. Dumping. I had to keep making odd excuses why I need to run to the restroom. They mostly centred around being super hydrated but I was very unfocused. I hope it wasn't super noticable, but I'm sure it was...😥

I hope he wants to go out again. I am just going to order Water, coffee or tea.

Oh no!

Oil and carbs combined can make even my Iron tummy complain (hush puppies and I no longer get along :unsure:) .

Any update?

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