Cold feet a day away from Gastric Sleeve surgery

[KatXoxo 14]

This is my first time ever posting anything on here. My name is Katrina and I live in MA. I'm getting sleeved on 12/14, and I've been experiencing major cold feet. I been really worried the past few days that I might be making a big mistake. I'm also being really hard on myself because I researched and planned on getting this surgery for years. Now that I'm finally getting it I'm having doubts, which then makes me feel even worse.

I tried losing weight in many ways over the years, that didnt work. I have hypothyroidism, which made losing weight in the past 10 times harder. My reasons to get sleeved is to feel better about myself physically and mentally. I also want to prevent getting diabetes, and high blood pressure that's very prevalent in my family.

My family also has bone and joint dysfunctions. I have a joint dysfunction in my jaw, called TMJ. At times I experience lots of discomfort and pain from it.

My fears are that I'm afraid that there maybe complications during, or after surgery. I'm also worried that my TMJ will get worse, or other joints in my body will start to have issues. Im worried that I won't be able to take anything that will help it, or help with the pain that isn't a heavy narcotic. I don't want to be taking strong opiates for long periods of time, and after surgery anti-inflammatories are out of the question.

Have any of you experienced something like this, where your scared but some what excited before getting sleeved? Have any of you have any joint problems before or after surgery? If you do and are post-op, what do you do about the pain? (Sorry for writing so much )

[JeezLouise91 55]

I've had cold feet for about a month and I don't even get sleeved until January! It's so easy to be sure about getting it when we're in the process isn't it?! But as soon as you get accepted and get a date, bam it hits. Unfortunately we can't see into the future so nothing is certain. Complications can happen but that's the risk we're willing to take for a better life. I don't have diabetes or high blood pressure either, but will probably get it the way I'm going, so when you think about it, not having the surgery is a risk too! Losing weight is harder for me too with PCOS. Let's face it, the chances of us successfully losing weight and keeping it off without the surgery is slim. It's not like we haven't tried. Sorry I can't answer any of your questions as I'm not quite there yet! But I really related to some parts of your post so wanted to give you some encouragement [emoji3] xxx

Surgery due January 10th 2018

[Sosewsue61 3,185]

Complications of the sleeve are extremely low, less than 1%.

My joints feel much better after the surgery and losing some weight. I used to take nsaids daily before surgery but haven't needed anything after the first week of surgery for pain anywhere. Everyone has fear before surgery, that's normal. I could lose weight but not keep it off.

[MamaDarlin 25]

I just had my sleeve done a few days ago. I have painful hip dysplasia which nsaids control well. I'm hoping that as the weight comes off I will have less pain. Taking it one day at a time, right now my battle is with the nausea. I think it's better to look at the big picture and how much healthier you will feel after a few months.

[Editor57 11]

I’m incredibly laid back about medical issues, but I was nervous and snapped at my poor surgeon in pre-op the morning of surgery. I think it’s normal. It’s a life-altering procedure and it’s not an easy process. We laughed about it afterward.

[KatXoxo 14]

I've had cold feet for about a month and I don't even get sleeved until January! It's so easy to be sure about getting it when we're in the process isn't it?! But as soon as you get accepted and get a date, bam it hits. Unfortunately we can't see into the future so nothing is certain. Complications can happen but that's the risk we're willing to take for a better life. I don't have diabetes or high blood pressure either, but will probably get it the way I'm going, so when you think about it, not having the surgery is a risk too! Losing weight is harder for me too with PCOS. Let's face it, the chances of us successfully losing weight and keeping it off without the surgery is slim. It's not like we haven't tried. Sorry I can't answer any of your questions as I'm not quite there yet! But I really related to some parts of your post so wanted to give you some encouragement xxx

Surgery due January 10th 2018

Thanks, your reply definitely gave me some reassurance. We are really similar when it come down to losing weight while having hypo or PCOS. That was actually one the main reasons why I wanted to get the sleeve, because I knew I wouldn't be able to lose the amount of weight i need to, to be considered ''normal'' bmi. Thanks!

[KatXoxo 14]

Complications of the sleeve are extremely low, less than 1%.
My joints feel much better after the surgery and losing some weight. I used to take nsaids daily before surgery but haven't needed anything after the first week of surgery for pain anywhere. Everyone has fear before surgery, that's normal. I could lose weight but not keep it off.

Oh, I understand, at least it's pretty low, and same here. I could only lose 20lbs on my own with regular dieting on a calorie deficit. After that, I start gaining again, and it always went straight back to the belly area.

[KatXoxo 14]

This is my first time ever posting anything on here. My name is Katrina and I live in MA. I'm getting sleeved on 12/14, and I've been experiencing major cold feet. I been really worried the past few days that I might be making a big mistake. I'm also being really hard on myself because I researched and planned on getting this surgery for years. Now that I'm finally getting it I'm having doubts, which then makes me feel even worse.
I tried losing weight in many ways over the years, that didnt work. I have hypothyroidism, which made losing weight in the past 10 times harder. My reasons to get sleeved is to feel better about myself physically and mentally. I also want to prevent getting diabetes, and high blood pressure that's very prevalent in my family.
My family also has bone and joint dysfunctions. I have a joint dysfunction in my jaw, called TMJ. At times I experience lots of discomfort and pain from it.
My fears are that I'm afraid that there maybe complications during, or after surgery. I'm also worried that my TMJ will get worse, or other joints in my body will start to have issues. Im worried that I won't be able to take anything that will help it, or help with the pain that isn't a heavy narcotic. I don't want to be taking strong opiates for long periods of time, and after surgery anti-inflammatories are out of the question.
Have any of you experienced something like this, where your scared but some what excited before getting sleeved? Have any of you have any joint problems before or after surgery? If you do and are post-op, what do you do about the pain? (Sorry for writing so much [emoji26][emoji28])

I want to give u guys an update. I'm currently recovering in my room, one day after getting sleeved. I did it! Lol. All of your comments reassured me, and helped me look at the bigger picture, and that this procedure is going to help me in the long run. I'm achey, and currently battling gas pains, yuck! [emoji13][emoji21] Thank you guys for all the support, it really helped! Wish me luck on my recovery!

[JeezLouise91 55]

I want to give u guys an update. I'm currently recovering in my room, one day after getting sleeved. I did it! Lol. All of your comments reassured me, and helped me look at the bigger picture, and that this procedure is going to help me in the long run. I'm achey, and currently battling gas pains, yuck! Thank you guys for all the support, it really helped! Wish me luck on my recovery!

Oh excellent! The most nerve wrecking part is over! I'm a little envious as I so wish I was in your place now lol. Look out for me on January 16th where I will be writing my post through tears wishing you a speedy recovery and all the success xxx

Surgery due January 17th 2018

CW 238
GW 133

[KatXoxo 14]

Oh excellent! The most nerve wrecking part is over! I'm a little envious as I so wish I was in your place now lol. Look out for me on January 16th where I will be writing my post through tears [emoji23] wishing you a speedy recovery and all the success xxx

Surgery due January 17th 2018

CW 238
GW 133

Lol. Thanks for the support. Now I just can't wait until all the gas pains, and tenderness from the insicions go away! I'll keep a look out for your posts. Stay calm, and everything will be all right. Good luck!

[JayMateox3 1]

Hey Katrina! I had my vsg done back in October, and am also from MA! Feel free to contact me with any questions! Hope you have a speedy recovery!

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[cfortlage 1]

Oh excellent! The most nerve wrecking part is over! I'm a little envious as I so wish I was in your place now lol. Look out for me on January 16th where I will be writing my post through tears [emoji23] wishing you a speedy recovery and all the success xxx

Surgery due January 17th 2018

CW 238
GW 133

Wow my Surgery date is also January 16, 2018

CW. 220
GW 160

[FluffyChix 17,409]

Congrats on pulling the trigger!!!! You won't regret this! You did the right thing.

[JukeboxJess 15]

My surgery is Monday!! I'm so scared, but I know I won't regret it. At least that's what I keep saying...

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[mama2nanda 5]

I've had cold feet for about a month and I don't even get sleeved until January! It's so easy to be sure about getting it when we're in the process isn't it?! But as soon as you get accepted and get a date, bam it hits. Unfortunately we can't see into the future so nothing is certain. Complications can happen but that's the risk we're willing to take for a better life. I don't have diabetes or high blood pressure either, but will probably get it the way I'm going, so when you think about it, not having the surgery is a risk too! Losing weight is harder for me too with PCOS. Let's face it, the chances of us successfully losing weight and keeping it off without the surgery is slim. It's not like we haven't tried. Sorry I can't answer any of your questions as I'm not quite there yet! But I really related to some parts of your post so wanted to give you some encouragement [emoji3] xxx

Surgery due January 10th 2018

Thank you for putting this into perspective for me. I'm having bypass this Friday and I'm freaking out. My fears are piling up and I'm getting more and more nervous. I want to eat whatever I want but I can't right now with being on the Optifast diet. I don't have any health complications right now but I know it will be a matter of time. I know this will be a mental game and coming to that reality is scaring me. I'm really hoping this goes well.