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I've been looking forward to feeling " confident" with the lights ON! Not there yet but maybe someday...

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I'm pre op and just waiting on an actual date within the next few weeks. I laughed when I saw this post because it is something I am looking forward to so much. My intimate life with hubby has been boring for so long due to my weight. I'll be glad for new experiences for me and for him too!

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Everyone I've asked has said hells yeah. Lol

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Everyone I've asked has said hells yeah. Lol

If that's the case then I can't wait

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YES! Amazingly better

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You are never to old to get frisky. At 38 ponds down, it's better already. In addition to the confidence boost of a changing body, there is noticeable improvement in flexibility. Plus it burns calories and has many benefits concerning health and happiness..........so, yes it gets better!

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No doubt it gets better and in many different ways.

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Ha! Sometimes I even want to have it!

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Sex better? Oh goodness YES!

Light on? Haha, I'm more insecure now than when I was larger.

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Ummm two words... HELL YEA!!!! :-) lol

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Yes, no more bedroom "bloopers" I can stay on top without altitude sickness lol,lol

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Uhmmm heck yes! Being 100lbs lighter, there are a lot of moves we can do now that were no where near possible before :-) he can even pick me up now!

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No doubt it gets better and in many different ways.

I can't wait. I avoid sex now because of my weight. It's just too much of an effort and I hate tiring out quickly. I look forward to long and GREAT sessions. I'm giggling just thinking about it. lol :D

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After losing so much weight, I'm sure there's an issue with loose skin. Is your partner affected by that? I'm worried that it'll gross my partner out too much... I'm already grossed out thinking about it. :(

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