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If I had a dollar for every time I heard this phrase........, I hope I never hear it again!!

I am 2 months post op and have lost 34 pounds. I am kicking it up into high gear and joining a boot camp type fitness place on Friday. I am determined to lose this weight!! Who's with me??

I want a beautiful everything!!!

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oh fack, dont you just hat that?! i literally have hotten that my WHOLE life...i completely agree with you, that will be THE DAY, when someone says u have a nice body, or you look good from head to toe...not just head. lol

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If I had a dollar for every time I heard this phrase........, I hope I never hear it again!!

I want a beautiful everything!!!

You and me both sister!

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I have heard this since I was a little girl!! So done with it. How does anyone think this is a compliment? To me it means, you would be a lot prettier if you weren't so fat! Just come out and say it. These are the people I will think about while kicking some butt at that class!! I hope I survive it!

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Ugh, I'm tired of that too. Hope you're doing well!

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I get both. You have a pretty face but you're fat. Why don't you do something about it? Man, if only they knew!

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MandaPanda! You nailed this one! If I had a dime for every time I've heard it....

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I'm the president of the pretty face club....ugh

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Lord we need a club because I've gotten that too. Why oh why can't someone just say "Wow your very pretty". It has to always be "wow you gave a very pretty face". As if nothing else extra on me exists lol.

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I had an old lady come up to me randomly and tell me how beautiful I am and how I remind her of her daughter. Sweet right? Yeah, then she goes on to say how her daughter has a weight problem too and did these special shakes and lost over 40 pounds! I laughed because I didn't know how else to react to that. Pretty face club member all the way. Should we get jackets? Members only?

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I had an old lady come up to me randomly and tell me how beautiful I am and how I remind her of her daughter. Sweet right? Yeah, then she goes on to say how her daughter has a weight problem too and did these special shakes and lost over 40 pounds! I laughed because I didn't know how else to react to that. Pretty face club member all the way. Should we get jackets? Members only?

yes. Pink satin jackets. Like the pink ladies!

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I had an old lady come up to me randomly and tell me how beautiful I am and how I remind her of her daughter. Sweet right? Yeah, then she goes on to say how her daughter has a weight problem too and did these special shakes and lost over 40 pounds! I laughed because I didn't know how else to react to that. Pretty face club member all the way. Should we get jackets? Members only?

That's terrible! When I was pregnant with my son I was in the drs office and two old women were sitting behind me and were saying it was appalling how much weight women gain these days while pregnant and it was a shame I let myself go while pregnant because I had such a pretty face! I was soooooo uncomfortable in the waiting room that day! ( I did gain almost 100 pounds while pregnant with my son, I had preeclampsia and they didn't finally catch it till a week after I had him)

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I had an old lady come up to me randomly and tell me how beautiful I am and how I remind her of her daughter. Sweet right? Yeah, then she goes on to say how her daughter has a weight problem too and did these special shakes and lost over 40 pounds! I laughed because I didn't know how else to react to that. Pretty face club member all the way. Should we get jackets? Members only?

Tattoos! Except they should say "Not just a pretty face!"

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I to also had that problem my whole life all u comments n replies or exactly what I been through I want a new comment as well u r absolutely gorgeous from head to toe rather all these surgeries n pain I been through to be fit I hope one day I will get notice

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I usually reply, " My face is just not pretty. I am from head to toe gorgeous , remember that."

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