female only Sex after Sleeve

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I ask because my boyfriend of three years will not think differently of me after I thin out but if I cut him off of sex that might be a different story lol

TMI...If he really cares he will understand...I had my tonsils out in January and I couldn't (u know) for a while because it hurt to put anything big near my insicion site. At least there are other ways to please him if you really arent in the mood lol.

[ainsworth1 8]

ha ha i was the same!! i wanted to 3rd day post op, but hubby was having none of it!! he was like "you have to be kidding me, you've just had 3/4 of your stomach removed!!!" we were 1 week post op. no problems i didnt do anything too experimental though!!! just go easy. :)

[NiqueJ 140]

Lol!!! Y'all are killing me!! I'm glad to know no one had any major issues.... I asked because at the moment my mind says wait or we are not doing it, everything else is like GIMME GIMME GIMME!!! Lol

[*susan* 1,709]

Girl, the more weight I lost, the sexier I felt. The sexier I felt, the more I wanted to share it with my man! I think you will be fine.

[NikkiC 37]

Ok now I'm a little worried are you guys telling me that I won't want sex after !

I can only speak for myself, but it hasn't been the case for me at all!

[chantalen 2]

I thought it was just me but since I had my sleeve sex is the furthest thing from my mind.

Me too , it's been a month and a half since my sleeve and my husband and I have not jumped back in the sack yet. 1. I don't really think about it much any more 2. When I do I don't want to because I think he may not like how my body is changing or the hanging belly skin/fat I have

[lakobe00 63]

I thought it was just me but since I had my sleeve sex is the furthest thing from my mind.

Wow.....I have go into deep prayer...my husband think its him

[SeriouslyChange 319]

At first I didn't want sex. Once I lost about 20 pounds, I wanted a lot of sex. And now... I'll take it any time lol

[Ballermom 803]

4 days out for me. I say at times my libido is high like in the beginning and at times it dips.< /p>

[Ballermom 803]

But I will say i lost enough weight to ride cowgirl

Lol. Have not done that in many years.

[aquitenonnymouse 206]

My surgeon said to wait 6 weeks for vigorous exercise. I figured sex was vigorous exercise... so I waited 6 weeks.

My poor husband. I hope he doesn't read this thread and realize what he missed. Whoops!

[Lissa 2,631]

I don't remember how long I waited, but I can tell you that I'm game almost anytime these days!

[maharet111 544]

My sex drive has only increased. My poor boyfriend I think is feeling a bit like my own personal toy lol

He did make me wait 6 weeks though.

[beba238 123]

I did it 5 days post op lol. My sex drive is crazy one day and the next i'm just like mmm no... lol just like its was pre-op.. no change.

[LipstickLady 25,682]

My sex drive has only increased. My poor boyfriend I think is feeling a bit like my own personal toy lol

He did make me wait 6 weeks though.

Wait, he's not? Don't tell my husband that!