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So when I ask my hubby if a shirt or something looks small on me, I expect him to be honest and tell me (he always is), honestly if I ask him I tend to already think it is to small anyway. Well today he tells me the shirt I have on is to small. I DID NOT ask him his opinion and as a matter of fact I bought it the right size. I looked in the mirror and my rolls are not hanging out and my tummy is covered. I know how to shop. I am not a delusional person who is fat and they don't know it, so they keep wearing or buying to small clothes. LOL! I buy the right size, mommy taught me well. I don't know why this upset me but I wish he had kept his comment to himself. UGH! I am to emotional and I have no idea why!!!! Well thanks for letting me vent. Have a safe holiday weekend.

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Maybe he's just not used to you wearing a normal fitted shirt lol...when I was big I always wore larger size shirts to cover up, so maybe that's the case here. I'm sure he will get used to it in time. And I'm sure your shirt looks lovely on you as well. Way to go :)

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I had to laugh at the delusional fat person that continues to wear small cothes. I never did that, i tend to go the other way and wear big stuff. I'm sorry it upset you, Maybe he felt he could tell you because you do ask sometimes. But if it isn't small, then I am not sure, unless its just not his favorite of your shirts? Just let him know when you want his opinion you'll ask for it hahaha. I'd wear it all the damn time now!! Tehe jk ;)

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So when I ask my hubby if a shirt or something looks small on me, I expect him to be honest and tell me (he always is), honestly if I ask him I tend to already think it is to small anyway. Well today he tells me the shirt I have on is to small. I DID NOT ask him his opinion and as a matter of fact I bought it the right size. I looked in the mirror and my rolls are not hanging out and my tummy is covered. I know how to shop. I am not a delusional person who is fat and they don't know it, so they keep wearing or buying to small clothes. LOL! I buy the right size, mommy taught me well. I don't know why this upset me but I wish he had kept his comment to himself. UGH! I am to emotional and I have no idea why!!!! Well thanks for letting me vent. Have a safe holiday weekend.

I hate when I come out and hubby says "Are you wearing that? I like the blue shirt" lol. Don't let it get to you, you know what looks good!

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Thanks ladies! I know he didn't mean any harm but for some reason it bothered me today. It probably was the style he didn't like. But I wore it anyway.. LOL! :D

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