Yipee!!! I am scheduled for surgery on May 3! I was scheduled for my surgery on March 1, but decided to postpone it when my daughter pitched a fit. I AM going through with it this time. Still need to tell her...the best thing a fellow Sleeve-ster told me was to say. "I am not asking permission, but I am asking for support" Any other thoughts? Has anybody else dealt with family like this?

That is so true, and that is how you have to look at it.. Is this is your choice for You not them! I did have people question my choice, but typically I think once they knew I was serious and def. going through with it, I had lots of support. I think its only natural for people to question, out of fear or lack of knowledge.. Best I can say is lean on those who are supportive, because you will need them! And those who arent if they love you will bend.. even if its a little! BEst of luck!

That is so true, and that is how you have to look at it.. Is this is your choice for You not them! I did have people question my choice, but typically I think once they knew I was serious and def. going through with it, I had lots of support. I think its only natural for people to question, out of fear or lack of knowledge.. Best I can say is lean on those who are supportive, because you will need them! And those who arent if they love you will bend.. even if its a little! BEst of luck!

Thanks for the support! I am getting very excited! Wish it was tomorrow!!!

We all wish you the best. Keep us informed..

My hubby talked me out of it a couple years ago. And he was hesitant now too, but he said he'd support me. His main concern is the risks for complications. Having lost both of his parents already (he's 32) he needs me to be there for him and not get hurt. We saw a counselor to talk about it and we've agreed to disagree basically. He respects that I want it, and he wants me to be happy and healthy too.